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Another Case Study:  Lying On Your Resume Is the Final Straw

Orginally published on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 9:13 AM
by Todd Rhoades

At MMI, we talk about all kinds of ministry-related subjects. Unfortunately, one of the subjects I feel we need to discuss is when one of our churches or pastors has a dramatic fall or split. Such was the case recently at Bellevue Community Church in Nashville; another is the recent resignation/forced leaving of Pastor Steven Flockhart of the huge 10,000 member First Baptist Church of West Palm Beach, FL. Some feel that we should not discuss matters like this at MMI; however I believe that taking these situations as kind of 'case studies' on church leadership has the potential to help far more pastors, leaders, and churches than it hurts. As in the BCC case, the FBWPB (First Baptist West Palm Beach) story, even from an outsider's perspective has some valuable lessons for all of us involved in church leadership; lessons we need to heed, lest we find ourselves (individually or as a church) in the same perdicament...

I’ll try to give as many factual details as I can… Pastor Flockhart’s story starts a few years back, when he was pastor of a church in Georgia.  There, according to newspaper reports and court papers, the pastor ‘misappropriated several hundred thousand dollars’ from the church by using church credit cards for his personal bills and writing checks to himself without permission from church leaders.  He resigned in April 1998 and six months later, he offered to get a bank loan to repay the money with interest, according to the suit. He persuaded church leaders to co-sign a loan for $142,638.  Church leaders said even though Flockhart’s action threatened the church’s survival, there are no hard feelings.

Flockhart then moved to Second Baptist Church in Millington, TN; growing this church from 300 people to 2,300.  He then defaulted on his loan to the first church.  When the bank went after the church, the church then filed suit against Pastor Flockhart for the remainder of the loan amount.

In June of this year, Pastor Flockhart accepted the pastorate at FBWPB on the recommendation of another prominent SBC pastor, Dr. Johnny Hunt.

This is where things begin to unravel.  FBWPB knew nothing about Flockhart’s financial past until someone mailed them a copy of the lawsuit.  Oh, and this same anonymous person also sent a copy of the lawsuit to the Palm Beach Post.

When the Post contacted the church, they were very guarded and closed.  They gave no access to Flockhart; and spoke only through an Executive Pastor.  The result was that the press saw the church and the pastor as hiding something.  So what did they do?  They continued to dig.  Here’s how the story was printed:

The Rev. Kevin Mahoney, executive pastor of the imposing Baptist church along the Intracoastal Waterway just south of downtown West Palm Beach, said he and other church leaders learned of the lawsuit after they offered Flockhart the prestigious position of head pastor, which had been vacant for three years.

Like The Palm Beach Post, the church received a copy of the lawsuit and other court documents from a person who signed a short note only as “A former Crosspointe Member.”

Flockhart, 40, who lives in a 4,500-square-foot house in Royal Palm Beach with his wife and six children, declined requests for interviews. It is church policy for Mahoney alone to respond to press inquiries, the executive pastor said.

After talking with Flockhart and Crosspointe leaders, Mahoney said he is convinced that Flockhart’s financial problems in Georgia were a result of a bad real estate decision, not bad character.

“In his mind, he did an honorable thing when he was put in a difficult financial position,” Mahoney said.

And there is no doubt Flockhart was in bad financial straits even before his former church sued him.

According to Georgia court records, American Express Travel-Related Services Co. slapped a $36,150 judgment against him in April 1996 for failing to pay a $29,540 bill. The judgment, which included interest and attorney fees, was satisfied five months later.

That same year, the Internal Revenue Service filed an $8,617 lien against him for not paying three years of taxes. That lien also was satisfied within months.

When asked about it, Mahoney said, Flockhart denied ever having any problems with the IRS and said he had not had an American Express card for 12 or 15 years. After The Palm Beach Post faxed the Georgia court documents to Mahoney, he talked to Flockhart again.

Roughly a half-hour later, Mahoney called to say Flockhart did remember a dispute over payroll taxes with the IRS. Further, he remembered the dispute with American Express.

Mahoney said he was not troubled that Flockhart’s story changed dramatically in less than two hours.

“It was a long time ago,” he said.

The more the reporter looked, the more she found.  The final blow was the report that Pastor Flockhart had lied on his resume about his education.  The newspaper reported that the résumé Flockhart provided to the church made it appear he held bachelor’s and master’s degrees from two respected institutions. But a background check by The Post found he actually obtained bachelor’s, master’s and doctorate degrees through correspondence courses offered by a Georgia theological school that isn’t accredited by a recognized agency.  Flockhart’s résumé also said he is “currently obtaining a second master’s from Southeastern Theological Seminary.” But officials there said he never obtained a master’s degree from the school in Wake Forest, N.C., and is not now enrolled.

So ends that pastorate (and possibly the career) of a bright young man, who according to everyone, was a rivoting, dynamic preacher.

Real quickly, some things that we can learn from this situation to start our discussion:

Things to Learn as a Church
1.  Never, ever hire a staff member without doing a proper background check.  Even a simple background check on Flockhart would’ve shown court records and education discrepencies.  Quite simply, after three years without a pastor, FBWPB didn’t do their homework and they paid for it.

2.  Never, ever hide from the media.  It could be that if Flockhart would’ve fessed up with a media interview early on, that that would have been the end of it.  But hiding from the media; and getting caught in lies from your designated ‘mouthpiece’ only helps the media smell blood; and they WILL go after you.  Have a plan on how to address the media in case of a scandal.  And, have a better plan than FBWPB’s.

3.  Don’t think that this can’t/won’t ever happen to you.  I see this all the time.  People don’t think this will happen to them (even when it happens to others all around them).  Flockhart was such a great preacher; that his first church kept everything private and said nothing.  They worked out a payment plan and only did what they had to do later on.  Leaders fail.  Even the most dynamic and charismatic leaders fail.  When it happens, you need to be prepared to deal with it; especially when it hits close to home.

4.  Finally, and this should be obvious… keep the pastor’s hands out of the money.  Make sure everyone in the area of finances is accountable; and having the pastor with access to check writing is not an option in most cases.  Sorry.

Things to Learn as a Church Leader
1.  Man, you’ve got to be honest.  Lying on your resume is just not cool.  Someone will find out (although in this case it should’ve been the church search committee rather than the local newspaper reporter).  There seem to be some scriptures on this issue; maybe even a commandment.

2.  Don’t try to hide your past when you go to a new church.  They will find out; from a disgruntled person from your old church; from court papers; or from a local reporter.  Don’t assume that you can leave all your past mistakes at your last church.

3.  Guard your finances.  Keep things above board.  If there are holes in your current system of church government that could get you in trouble, close those holes before you’re tempted or caught.

4.  Don’t think that your dynamic preaching or wonderful leadership skills covers a multitude of sins.  Great leaders sometimes, it seems, think that since they’re so great or successful in one area, that they should receive great grace in other areas.  I’m all for grace; but don’t use it as an excuse to sin or continue in sin.  In leadership, integrity is where it’s at.

OK… I’m finished with my rant.  What do you think?  Really, these seem like some pretty simple and basic leadership ideas that were broken in this instance.  Now three churches and communities have to pick up the pieces in the aftermath; and a pastor and his family are stuck in a situation that is less than fortunate as well.

What can you learn from this case study?


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 TRACKBACKS: (1) There are 28 Comments:

  • Posted by

    Should you leave stuff off of your resume though?? Like bad churches?

  • Posted by kent

    First off, no pastor every ought to have check writing and withdrawl priviliges at church. Strict accounting procedures needs to beused with church credit cards. This is the for the pastor’s protection.

    Secondly, being a dynamic preach does not help if the rest of the person is a little iffy.

  • Posted by

    Good case study Todd.  Words from the late Ronald Reagan came to mind as I read this one..."trust, but verify.”

    And along the lines of pastoral involvement with church finances, what do you guys think about a pastor that wants a listing of each member’s financial giving to the church?

  • Posted by

    When I left my last church there were certainly people who would say I had integrity issues OK they DID say that.  Before leaving, hoever, I had tried to meet with everyone of them to reconcile any thing I had done or appeared to have done. 
    When interviewing with my current church I was REALLY honest… Scary honest one of them said… When they checked with past ministries, all of the stories were the same.
    HIding your past failures or less than great reccomendations only leads to a lack of integrity… Failure to answer the questions pours FUEL on the fire… and in today’s media frenzy, you are finished before you are found innocent or guilty.

  • Posted by

    Gman,

    Bad idea to leave things off your resume.  A gap in employment should be checked.  You will be seen as hiding the information.  That could be taken as falsification of your record and may be grounds for termination or a reason not to hire.

    Be ready to discuss the “bad” congregation and the way you responded to situation.

  • Posted by kent

    I know that some people think that the pastor ought to know what people in his or her church give, but I have never had that desire. What people is a matter of their spiritual maturity and what they desire. I teach tithing but I do not mandate it. I also believe that in our current culture people treat personal finances with greater confidentiality than they sex lives. Yikes.

  • Posted by

    Where would you draw the line on the interview/background check?  How much info is necesary?  Would you sign an information release form? (notarized of course).  What about crimes for which you were never caught/or accused, let alone convicted.  How much financial info would you be willing to divulge?  I am not sure how naked we should expect the candidates to get.

  • Posted by

    Once again we see how easy it is to fall.  Be on guard, it seems the attacks are on the rise and we must do as scripture teaches and be vigilant in our faith.  It is tragic how often you hear stories like these.

    However I would ask that you consider the possibility that his educational statements on his resume may be in fact honest.  If my guess is right, he attened Convington Theological Seminary in Rossville, GA the same seminary I attended.  There are in fact un-accredited, not due to the lack of educational content, but due to a desire to remain true to their vision for the seminary.  The founder feels that accrediting will only drive up cost and bring pressure to change their focus. 

    I realize that some do not accept their degrees, however I can tell you from experience their classes are just as difficult as most others seminary classes, I have taken classes from others.  Their requirements for graduation is very difficult and reviewed before earned. 

    Convington might not show up on an educational screening, but this does not reduce their reality.  Just ask men like Johnny Hunt (FBC Woodstock), Jim Henry (FBC Orlando), Ron Philips (Central BC), Mike Anderson (FBC Mabelton), Bob Pitman (Kirby Woods Memphis), Dr. John Rogers (IN Bapt Convention), Dr. John Garrison (FBC Jasper, AL), and many others. 

    Storm is coming, I must go. Just pointing out the possibility his resume might be OK, but apparently something is missing from his character.

  • Posted by

    I liked this “4.  Finally, and this should be obvious… keep the pastor’s hands out of the money. “

    It will take care of so many other problems if we do that.

    Kent writes “I know that some people think that the pastor ought to know what people in his or her church give, but I have never had that desire.” Wow, I’m dogmatic about few things, but this is one of them. I do not EVER want to know how much people make or give.

  • Posted by

    Layne,

    Personal opinion here, but I think that if you are trying to be a pastor of a church you should be honest.  You don’t necessarily need to tell all, but be honest when questions are asked.  If an interviewer were to ask if you’ve ever committed a crime and didn’t get caught, don’t lie about it.  Either excuse yourself from the interview process, or tell the truth.  I don’t believe most interviewers would ask this question though.  Of course, I say that, with the understanding that some questions one could call “no-brainers” we’re having to ask now.

    For example, we’ve gotten into the habit of asking if “1. Are you a Christian?” and “2. Are you living with your boyfriend/girlfriend?” We’ve had so many people that have come in to interview that are clearly not Christians.  I think the saddest part is, they don’t even realize it.

  • Posted by kent

    By the By lying on his resume is the least of this gentleman’s problems.

  • Posted by

    Kent,

    I agree, however the newspaper article and Todd’s assessment seem to imply his education as being subpar, doctored resume (see Heading).  I just want to point out that there are some great seminaries and colleges who prefer to remain true to their vision and not be influences by other forces, good or bad.
    The guys who attends these institutions are not lying or decieving anyone.  Just because their degrees or diplomas are not found in some Accrediting Firms database does not negate their validity.

    I wish Covington would ge accredited, I would consider returning for additional ed.  If this guys was like me I enrolled and attended on the premise they would seek accreditation before I graduated, it couldn’t be worked out.
    I really didn’t repond to this guys failure as much as I did the implication of resume fraud although there seems to be some.  If everyone felt that non-accredited seminaries is fraud, then I am one and so are many other faithful servants of Christ.  I am responding to what I see as exclusivism in certain quarters against those who didn’t attend some more well known seminaries.  I can show you men who did not attend seminary (some who read this blog regularyly) at all who are being used by God, it’s not the seminaryin the man, it is the Spirit in that man of that makes the difference!

    Thanks Todd for MMB, I love the info, just wanted to add my imput

  • Posted by

    I was a member at steve flockharts church in dalton.  The paper didn’t get into half of what he did.  He borrowed money from people all the time.  He took 8000 dollars cash his mother gave to the chest of joaz and pocketed it.  When she didnt see it on her end of year statement he told the finance pastor in charge that money was there to take care of her “baby boy”.  I respect Johnny Hunt but when steve was on staff with johnny at woodstock johnny bailed steve out all the time.  He bounced checks all over woodstock.  He bounced checks all over dalton.  The guy obviously has other problems.  He was making 90,000 dollars a year in 1998 and there is 142,000 dollars that knowone can account for.  He is a great preacher but he justifies his failures by how big the church grows and how many people he leads to the Lord.  Its time that he repents and is accepts full responsability for his actions but mark my words.  His old church (crosspointe) will take him back and he will never have to deal with what ever problem he has. As far as covington seminary they awarded him that doctorate back in 1998 after he gave them a big donation. Think about it

  • Posted by

    Kelly, I also attended the church in Dalton when you were there(even though I’m not sure who you were).  Everything you said is correct.  I will speak and say that all you say about his mother and the Doctorate(which we were told at the time was honorary) is true.  I also agree that I believed that he had at least a Bachelor’s degree from an institution in which he lived in married housing.  I believed this because he made reference to it on more than one occassion in sermons.  From the newspaper article, all of that is now untrue.  There is no married housing at Covington, right?  So this man has told more lies than just on a resume.  I have always believed in him as a dynamic evangelist, but I continue to question his integrity.  If you are lying or ommitting on a resume then you probably lie and omit in other situations as well which is a BIG problem.

  • Posted by

    Just for the record, I was neither supporting or advocating this pastor in his errors.  I do not know him and cannot speak for his character.  My only desire was to point out the possibility that his seminary degrees might be legitimate. 
    My only support was for the seminary I attended.  And to point out that those educated in “un-accredited” intitutions are none the less fit for Kingdom service.

  • Posted by

    Thank you!! Everything you said is RIGHT ON! Keep it simple!  Basic laws of God for man!!

  • Posted by

    I find this string of messages so interesting.  I think it is so funny how we as “christians” are so quick to bash and ruin a pastors reputation but are not willing to fall on our knees and pray for restoration and for his family.  When I get to Heaven I hope that God is honored in all areas of my life but espically my prayer life.

    Pastor Flockhart still has a family of seven to support - What would Jesus do in this situation?  Imagine if a local church (Christ fellowship, Calvery Chapel of Fort Lauderdale, First Baptist of Fort Lauderdale) took him in and mentored him, helped his family out in this time of need and actually demonstrated what Christ’s love is all about.  This man has a passion of sharing the gospel message and FBC of West Palm has seen that passion.  There were 50+ decisions in 4 weeks time - God was begining to work in a city full of lost people!  It is time that churches run according to the Bible insead of business principles in the secular world!  It is time to forgive and help people through the times when they fall.

    Rember this we all have a past - I am just so glad that God has forgiven me and that is all that truly matters! 
    Pray for First Baptist Church, Pray for Pastor Flockhart and Pray for his six children and his wife in this time of need.

    2 Corinthians 2:4-11
    4 For I wrote you out of great distress and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to grieve you but to let you know the depth of my love for you.  5 If anyone has caused grief, he has not so much grieved me as he has grieved all of you, to some extent—not to put it too severely. 6 The punishment inflicted on him by the majority is sufficient for him. 7 Now instead, you ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. 8 I urge you, therefore, to reaffirm your love for him. 9 The reason I wrote you was to see if you would stand the test and be obedient in everything. 10 If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have forgiven—if there was anything to forgive—I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake, 11 in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes.

  • Posted by

    Personally, I went to Crosspointe Baptist for several years ( in Millington,TN) where Steve pastored before he went to West Palm Beach.. From my experience he has issues with money and was to me very materialistic if not arrogant in his spending and attitude. HE NEEDS TO REPENT! But I love Steve and Vickie both(and the kids,of course!),they really need prayers. Also pray for Johnny Hunt and First Baptist,Woodstock,GA. When I was at Crosspointe I notice there were staff people being brought in that were mainly from Woodstock. That really bother me because it seem like there was some sort of “system” going on there about bringing in just Woodstock folks. Does that kind of system go on at other churches? I’m sure it does.I mean what are we building,hallow cathedrals of men or building the kingdom of God? It seems to be like a clique or something that is going on.  I do know that Steve considers Hunt as a father-figure and it seem to me that he was trying to “reproduce” a Millington version of Woodstock here. Look,people are going to hell everyday day and you have men who are worried about there portfolios and stocks and bonds and careers and such and the body of Christ just lays there and slumbers. Don’t we have enough problems already? Come on folks,lets get real!  We are ALL servants of the Living God !  We are ALL accountable to this Holy God! We have the gospel,the Great Commission,to obey our Lord and Saviour,Jesus Christ! We need a passion for others and stop this nonsense of being carnal and worldly! If we don’t stop the thing that befell Flockhart can(and will) happen to us,mark my words. May God have mercy on us! But the beautiful thing of it all is God’s grace! Its amazing! So lets pray for the Flockharts,the Hunts,our pastors,our laity,our ministries,our homes,our country,our lives,our integrity,our country,and for our souls! You have heard the joyful sound,Jesus Saves! Jesus Saves! Spread the the tidings all around,Jesus Saves! Jesus Saves! Its all about the Lamb Of God ,the Lord Jesus Christ! So lets dust ourselves off and get going as Paul exhorts us in his epistle to the Philipians in chapters 3 and 4 and also the whole epistle to the Ephesians. So lets REPENT and put on that armour of God and go to battle! God bless!

  • Posted by

    Craig, you said:

    “Convington might not show up on an educational screening, but this does not reduce their reality.”

    It may not reduce their reality but as someone who just served on a search committee it does reduce their validity.

    I appreciate that you support your alma mater but the fact is that as a search committee member I am going through a lot of resumes and as an educator if I know that someone has a degree from an unaccredited college or seminary that resume isn’t going to get much of a look from me.

    The problem with them being unaccredited in accountability.  If the Flockhart problem teaches us anything it is that we need something or someone to be accountable to and that is what the accreditation process is for a seminary.

    By the way, you mentioned some big names who got degrees from Covington...but how many of these degrees were honorary and how many were earned.

    Not trying to pick on you but a degree from an unaccredited seminary or college is worth the paper it is written on to everyone but the person that earned it.

  • Posted by

    Currently, there has been no final evidence provided regarding the BCC “forensic audit”, in toto. There has been information shared and documents provided to show how things were handled poorly and sloppily at BCC by the recently dismissed Pastor. I’m not sure that whole story will ever be told… but in the case of this guy from FBWPB.... man.... are there some similarities.... but not just financially speaking. It simply comes down to a person being fit to Pastor a church. Having true moral authority and spiritual character. Sometimes it takes the painful knowledge and revelation that they are acutally con artists, manipulators and phonies. I still believe that to be true regarding BCC’s discovery of what kind of person they had at the top and it may seep into the next church both of these guys figure out to start up or get a job at.

    It’s just very, very sad. And, at the end of the day.... it requires a much higher level of accountability and vigilance on everyone’s part.

    I have heard it said that: Someone watching someone get robbed and doing nothing to stop it or help… makes them just as criminal. That may be true for some and not for others. I just know that it happens all the time. And, I’m not just talking money. You can be robbed of many things. BCC was robbed of a lot of stuff.

    It seems people either become blind to a person/Pastor because they “speak” good or these counterfeit men are able to somehow convince people they are so very responsible for people being “saved” and so they are then above reproach or the rules of decency, not to mention the standard that the Word of God holds them to. It really is unbelievably naive to give anyone that much creedence. But, all of us are more prone to give people the benefit of the doubt and think the “best” of them, not the worst. Until it’s too late. Sometimes, an unhealthy and huge exodus of staff and congregation >>> too late and sometimes thousands and thousands of dollars >>> too late.

    Hey, are you gonna be mad at me if I point out you spelled perdicament wrong in your story about this? That might put me in a difficult predicament! I’m not sure I could “talk or speak” or “swindle” my way out of that. I guess I could just go to the next blog and repeat my past history. No one would probably say or do anything about that. C’mon, give me a break. What if I told you I was a Pastor? Would that make it okay?

  • Posted by

    Hey, forget the whole perdicament/predicament thing. I acutally spelled actually wrong in my comment above. Call us even, okay?

  • Posted by

    Well, I crafted a response and it got deleted so I will assume it should not have been sent.

    Suffice it to say, I worked very hard to recieve the degree I have.  You might think it worthless, but I can assure you it was not easy.  It took over three years of classes, two nights a week, 6 hours each night.  I did this while raising two kids and serving in full-time ministry that was successful.

    Lastly you might consider that if you church were looking for a pastor you would refuse to take a look at Perry Noble.  Perry pastors Newspring Church in Anderson SC.  It started 6 years ago on the campus of Anderson College.  On Sunday their attendance was over 6000.  Oh yeah, Perry doesn’t have a seminary education.  I guess he would fit your needs?

    Also as to those men I mentioned in my other post, some earned and some honorary.  Why do we honor those degrees not earned by anyone?  Kinda like grace isn’t it, unearned and unmerited yet valuable non the less?  You might want to check on some of today’s church leaders, it would amaze you how many have honorary PhD’s and not earned, it doesn’t negate the honor these men have achieved.
    Once again I only wanted to point out that putting your earned education on a resume is not dishonest.

    Thanks

  • Posted by

    I’m sure you worked very hard on your degree and learned a lot in the process. I was simply pointing out that If you attend an unaccredited seminary I have no way of knowing what standards your education met. In the case of Covington I can’t even find a course catalog on the web.

    My favorite pastor of all time was my last one. He didn’t attend seminary or college. I have nothing against a pastor that didn’t attend seminary (although I feel a seminary education is a very valuable tool in the pastorate) but I do see red flags when someone lists a school that is unaccredited or has a reputation for being a degree factory.  Fari or not the question that comes up is...were they trying to take the easy way out?

    When I looked at resumes of pastors in our search committee process...If I didn’t recognize the name of the seminary or college I would look it up on the web just to check it out. If it was a place that was unaccredited I made certain assumptions about their education. Fair or not that was my mindset. From what you have told us you have a legitimate degree but you should have seen some of the “alleged” education that some of these guys got. One of them was nothing more then a workbook that you took home and filled out in order to receive a PhD.  And he called himself Dr.

    Sorry if I came across as abrasive.

  • Posted by

    The resume is only part of the problem.  It seems that Mr. Flockhart cannot manage finances well and then seems to be less than honest.  I would not consider that man qualified for the pastorate.  I don’t care how “good” he preaches.  Titus 1:5 says that a pastor is to be “blameless” and verse 7 says that one is not to be a “lover of money.” 1Timothy 3:4 requires a pastor to manage his household well.  1 Timothy 3:7 says he must have a good reputation with those outside of the church....and banks are outside of the church.

    The churches that called Mr. Flockhart did not follow good procedures for candidates.  I’m surprised that the smaller churches I candidated for did a far better job in checking into my background than the large churches....hmmm.  I also wonder about those who “sponsored” him and seemed to “cover” for him.  Are they excusing his mismanagment of finances?  Talk about a lack of accountability!

    As far as degrees go...there is a lot of discrimination there.  I was a job developer for a few years.  In resume writing, one lists “accredited degrees” that have been earned.  If a person had an unaccredited degree, I would advise that person either to leave it off or put it under “other training.” I recognize that every accredited university and college began as unaccredited (Luther Rice, my school was initially unaccredited and is now regionally accredited).  Bob Jones University is unaccredited by choice and most people recognize it as a worthy, credible institute.  I have met lots of public school teachers who were trained there. 

    Lying on a resume cost one man locally a chance at a ministry.  He listed a diploma from a school and the search committee did a routine check.  It seems that the man only completed two courses and was not close to graduating.  He showed promise elsewhere and the Senior Pastor called the man directly and very bluntly said, “If you had been honest about your education, we would have still considered calling you.  Your dishonesty on this item puts your entire character into question.”

  • Posted by

    One person made a comment that Crosspointe would take him back… I am a member of Crosspointe and I have something to share.
    Steve Flockhart and his wife and kids are apart of my Family of God.  There are a lot of things that I do not understand regarding these situations but I know that he is a good man.  Thank God Jesus made allowance for our sin.  I am mad that everytime I heard someone tell tale of his secerts they were right.  I defended him because I believed his pitch.  Now Pastor Steve has made a fool of us.  But thats ok he was not the first and maybe not the last.  What can we do?  Nothing except pray and wait… Let me say again, I am mad that he made the gossipers day. 

    I WISH HE WOULD HAVE FACED HIS FEAR AND FOUND THE HEART TO CONFESS HIS SIN TO US AND LET US HELP HIM TOO!  He should have humbled himself before us… But instead he left to a richer church and got busted in his lies just as God’s will would have it!  Thank God for the uncovering of sin!  I pray he is now relieved of the fear of his sin being uncovered!  He is HUMAN IT IS OFFICIAL!  Maybe now he can deal with the real cause of his stress and get well! 

    I pray for GOD to show Crosspointe who is to be the senior pastor next. I pray we will hear and obey the Lord.  I pray that all things work together for good.  If god would have us to receive Steve Flockhart as a friend or as a pastor I pray we will have open hearts to his will.  I am as proud of Pastor Steve as I am dissappointed in him.  I still trust in him because he will be accountable to God only and because I have heard the truth always saves.  There is no doubt saving grace!  I pray Pastor Steve and Mrs. Vicky come home and celebrate a new rebuilding.  In common Millington, where sinners try again!  Ithink he should talk about it for the rest of his life and never regret the lessons he learned in humility.  I think it would do us all some good to face eachother’s sin and put systems in place to protect the church.  Everything in its own season! 

    Pray and wait...don’t rush anything- TRUST GOD.  PEOPLE DISAPPOINT US ALL THE TIME-WE DISAPPOINT OURSELVES-GROW UP-MOVE ON-LOOK FORWARD TO HEAVEN!  IF PASTOR STEVE READS THIS-HERE IS MY MESSAGE TO YOU- ROME WAS NOT BUILT IN A DAY!  IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU!  COME HOME- PUT THE KIDS IN MILLINGTON PUBLIC SCHOOLS-FACE THE PEOPLE AT WALMART-SCREW WHAT THEY SAY- THEY CAN’T TAKE YOUR EXPERIENCES FROM YOU AND IF YOU PROTECT IT YOUR DIGNITY EITHER-MAKE A BUDGET- STICK TO IT- DEAL WITH IT- IF YOU WANT TO REACH PEOPLE, REACH OUT- DO NOT BE ASHAMED-EAT THAT HUMAN EMOTION- DON’T GIVE UP- IT’ S NOT OVER- IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GO TO THE EXTREME AND REALLY MAKE A RADICAL CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE-PICK THE KIDS UP AND MOVE THEM TO THE WAY OF THE CROSS!

    - I think about the kids- All of this mess is a wonderful opportunity to set a dilligent example for them.  So they know better than to misapproiate anything- At least your fedility is in tack.  Good Luck!  I look forward to hearing good things!

    Don’t forget that all people everyday need help with these same issues!  No one sin is greater than another!  Thanks.

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