Orginally published on Monday, June 26, 2006 at 3:27 PM
by Todd Rhoades
I would like the honest opinion of everyone on the following quote. Maybe you've heard it before. It's making it's rounds on the internet the last couple of weeks. I won't even tell you who it's from (although it's easy enough to find out) and some of you will be able to guess anyway. Here's what I'd like to do...
1. Please do not give the author of this quote in the comments section. I’ve give that later. And if you don’t know who said it, make your remarks off of your initial thoughts. (In other words, don’t look up the source before you comment.)
2. Please start your comment by saying whether or not you are on a church staff. This is important. Just say, I’m a pastor; I’m a worship leader; whatever. If you’re in non-paid church leadership, just say you’re a lay leader.
3. OK… here’s the quote… read it, think about it, and comment…
“If your church has been plateaued for six months, it might take six months to get it going again. If it’s been plateaued a year, it might take a year. If it’s been plateaued for 20 years, you’ve got to set in for the duration! I’m saying some people are going to have to die or leave. Moses had to wander around the desert for 40 years while God killed off a million people before he let them go into the Promised Land. That may be brutally blunt, but it’s true. There may be people in your church who love God sincerely, but who will never, ever change.”
I’ll be back after we get a good amount of comments and tell you who said it, and what my thoughts are on the subject (if you’re interested).
I look forward to your comments!
Todd
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Post Your Comments:Aside fromt he fact that God rarely kills people outright and the wilderness circumstance was more of the letting sleeping dogs die, it seems that this person is persuaded that there is no supernatural element to spiritual revival and renewal. This follows very much in the humanistic vein of church growth by sociological and scientific application. God is neither controlled nor limited by time or space. Brutally blunt, yep. Spiritually sound, nope.
I am not a church leader, pastor, or anything with any official title. I simply am a member of a local congregation, and a part of a small group.
I think the quote (regardless of who said it) is pretty much right on. My dad is a pastor, and I’ve seen my fair share of churches, so all I can say is that the quote feels right. People who aren’t used to moving aren’t going to move. And if you try to move them, chances are, they’ll conspire to vote you off the island.
Of course, the spirit can move and do something unexpected, but people are pretty darn good at quenching the spirit, and if they haven’t cultivated that openness (and have therefore plateaued), chances are, getting them off that plateau (for a pastor or for the spirit) is going to be quite difficult.
My two cents.
Oh, how true it is! I’m a Children’s Pastor who’s between full-time ministries right now. The reason I’m looking for something else is because I’m tired of waiting for people to do before I can carry out the vision I believe God has given me for ministry.
I am a lay leader in my church. I think this is probably true in this persons experience. I also think too often church’s try to make excuses why they are stale and not growing but the bottom line is change is part of the Christian walk so from the leadership down that needs to be taught and explored daily or the church will not be relevant and able to reach the world around them. Biblical truths change the world when they are walked in not just read aloud. As a church starts to grow it has growing responsibility to be a church of integrity and truth under ever growing watchful eyes so maybe it’s just easier to stay the same insted of having to walk into more responsibility and more work.
I am glad that the church I go to is always thinking of ways to reach more people, serve more people, build more lives and give to more people, it’s not comfortable, it’s not easy but it’s what we are called to do so we must be about our fathers business not just warming pews.
I am a worship pastor. This is VERY right on. Revival is one thing, but sustained growth by simply being healthy should be the norm. It is so much easier to plant a whole new church than to change. Sometimes there are months of being flat, and this can be turned around as stated. The other is true, too where years might take years! I will not quote who said this, but one leader says in his church that “we are seven funerals away from revival.”
I’m Pastor of our church...been pastor for 8 years been with the church 14 years. I thought this and taught similarly at our church but perhaps not so brutally.
Our church was doing great through the mid 70’s. It grew from a church start in ‘61 to a church with more than 200 and all the programs. God provided all the church needed to take the next step and the church, or some in the church, said no. Then followed 20 years of decline.
I believe God judged the church just like He did the Israelites. They were supposed to trust Him and they didn’t so He withheld his blessings. There was a core group who faithfully worked and prayed. I won’t take time to tell the whole story but suffice it to say we recently moved into a new building in a new community with twice as much land and many more blessings and everything is paid for. We’ve picked up 20 new members in a year and a half, we’re a small church, 20 would be 200% growth ie double and we continue to have regular visitors. There are only two members at the church that were there when I came 14 years ago and they are two of the faithful ones. Many died, others moved on.
I’ve often thought that since two of the 12 believed they should follow God into the Canaan Land that there were probably a similar percentage of all the people who felt the same way, but God did not let any go in. It is an indication that the faithlessness of a few can hold back everyone.
Ok. I am a former assistant pastor and am currently principal of a Christian school. I was part of a church plant for 4 years. My thoughts are that the church is a LIVING organism that is supposed to be just that. Now that can be spiritual growth and physical as well. In our church plant we saw our church grow by sometimes 100 percent in 6 months. We started with 16 and four years later hit 165 not including big holiday weekends. I kept waiting for our growth spurt to drop off and I think we leveled some. Moses wandered because of disobedience of him and his people. If that is the case then what is the reflection of the shepherd and the flock. I think that is the key here. It is easy to say that some people need to be shed, but often that is an excuse for plateaued churches.
When the right attitudes prevail in a church then it will succeed, otherwise, take off your shoes and relax it is going to be a long time before anything happens. Music won’t change it, a new preacher won’t change it, a new board won’t change it.
Again, unless attitudes move from the negative to the positive… get your life jacket on because pretty soon you’ll be in the water.
I’m just a twentysomething kid with a heart for the future of the Church.<br><br>
It is often said that a measure of truth is how it actually fits with reality. This commentary definitely seems to match up with my experience of churches that have long plateaued and are experiencing little more than growth through new births to families already in the church. And yet, these thoughts still rub me odd—do we not believe in a God with the power through the Spirit to use even the weakest body of Christ to move forward the Gospel? Do we not believe that this same God desires for the Gospel to spread and his Church to grow? So is it a good idea to write off plateau-ed churches with a some people “will never, ever change” statement? <br><br>
I don’t claim to know anything about how to bring growth back to a declining church. However, I doubt that looking forward without the hope and expectation of a Christ-led renewal is a good way to get there.
I am a senior pastor and the comment communicates a principle that has merit. I don’t know if we can responsibly relate it to the Israelites nomadic adventures. Human nature being what it is, churches of all sizes seem to want to turn inward and in doing so close off to reaching people for Christ. This inward focus will inevitably kill all kinds of growth in the church. It is why some churches stay small but have “Mature” Christians in them, mature Christians who never reach anyone for Christ that is.
Ouch. I am an interim pastor. The comments made are truly from a minister who knows how to press people’s psycho-babble buttons. He/she must be a well read person who has a vast knowledge of ministry and perhaps having a mega church/ multi-campus work. I would think perhaps someone from the Middle East or Far East, as they see the faulty worship in the American churches much clearer that we can. I suppose this person might even be Islamic with the over tones of slaughter to the “lazy” Christians in churches today. It also feels like they don’t have much faith in what God can do to people’s hearts. Sounds like if they don’t contribute to the work, get rid of them, by kicking or killing them off.
Associate Pastor at a church.
Baloney.
I was a part of a church that had plateaued in a lot of obvious areas for the past 30 years. They brought in a new pastor who had vision and direction, and led with purpose, and the church exploded. The spiritual growth of the church is now (5 years later) immeasurably greater than it was before.
This quote is dangerous in the fact that it seems to place all the responsibility for growth on the key leader. Sometimes he can affect change, sometimes he can’t. If the church has plateaued for 6 months, it _might_ take 6 months to get it back. It might not. It might take 3 years. It depends on the reason for the plateau.
Sorry to post back to back - how embarrassing.
As far as God killing people off… it seems to me that God is in the business of changing lives moreso than in the business of taking them. Loving, honest, purposeful leadership beats the heck out of waiting for people to die off any day of the week.
I’m a lay leader for 20 years now. My experience matches the one described. People tend to build inertia. Those that have invested the most and have been around the longest can be the biggest barrier to moving on. Sadly the majority leave rather than change.
The wilderness experience is part of our journey - individually and corporately. God’s overall intent is not to kill off a million people. His intent is to kill the thing inside that holds us back from Him.
We have to die to ourselves. Those that leave are those that resist death. I am learning to like having the junk in me killed but it is not easy.
Bottom line, God wants does not want us to leave, He wants us to transform. Unfortunately we often find leaving easier.
I am a pastor’s wife, and I sure have seen the situation described in the original post. I’ve known several pastors in our community that have tried to revive a plateaued church, and found their people so resistant to change that the pastors were, as someone said earlier, “voted off the island”. God can certainly do a supernatural work and change peoples hearts, and I’ve no doubt that there are people out there who could tell remarkable stories of such. But it is also true that some people have dug their heels in and simply will not be persuaded of the need for change. In those cases, some may need to move on (in one way or another) before anything can happen. There’s an old joke - one pastor says to another pastor after a week of revival meetings “Did you have many added to your church”. The other pastor replies, “No, but we had a few blessed subtractions.”
I am a senior pastor, in my current church for 6 years, having been a pastor for 25 years.
While I am not be as acerbic as the author whoever he or she is, I agree that if you have plateaued for a period of time it normally will take time, perhaps the same amount of time to get growing consistently again. If you have a stagnated for years, then something dramatic is going to have to happen. Will some people have to leave? Yes. The old saying of all that keeps this from being a great church is a couple of funerals has some truth in it. There are people who will not change, who will resist the movement of God and will not allow progress to be made. They see the church as being for them. They do not want to make any alterations to reach people. It is their church. And they are not going to change.
Leadership Journal, (published by Christianity Today) Fall 2005 issue has a wealth of information regarding “Turnaround Churches.”
I happen to be in one of those right now. It is a 75 year old church with a lot of history, good and bad. I often joke that around here it is easier to be forgiven for breaking the commandments that it is for breaking the traditions.
No doubt there has been a large exodus of people who didn’t, wouldn’t or couldn’t catch the vision I was articulating. The influx of new people created new potential power structures that were threatenting to the older power brokers. It all sounds so carnal and much of it is. I have resorted to the tried and true methodology of bathing everything I do in prayer and evaluating everything that is done with a multitude of counselors. It’s been very slow progress, but slowly and surely the congregation is getting refired for its next phase.
There are days I wouldn’t give this job to a monkey on a rock. There are other days when I wouldn’t trade my job for any other. It comes with the territory of a turnaround church.
In my case I think the job has been a bit more difficult because I came from a church plant of which I was the founder. I served that church for 20 years. The only history we had was what was experienced through my leadership. My successor in the church plant is having similar trials with my former congregation. Unfortunately it seems people are more apt to follow a leader than the Lord.
I’ll keep plugging along here for the best reason I know. God, in no uncertain terms, called me to this congregation. It has been confirmed over and over again all the while the enemy has tried to convince me, and some others in the church, that it was a mistake.
I look forward to the day when we turn the corner. In the meantime I do what I believe God is telling me to do and trust that in due time he will accomplish his purposes in our church.
I’m the pastor of a church that had been plataued (or worse) for 20 years before I arrived. It only took three years for profound changes and growth to happen, and then we got stuck there for a while before we had another burst of growth in spirit and numbers.
The price of getting unstuck each time was huge conflict, and those conflicts took huge toll on me on others, and on the institution. There were times when it didn’t seem worth it. Some people will have to die or leave before they change, and they’ll thrash about signficantly when they do.
In the end you plug along as faithfully as you can and pray for grace and guidence. Some days you wonder if you should stay, and you try to discern among the many signs in your life, your family’s life, the church’s life as to the viability of this call.
It’s been hard, but rewarding. Many years in the desert for a few glimpses at the Promised Land.
I am currently an Associate Pastor but have been Senior Pastor and Solo Pastor in declining/Plateaued churches. I’m currently reading “Good to Great” by Jim Collins. The principle this quote is built upon is what Collins calls the “Flywheel” others call it the law of momentum. I have lived through it.
One author describes it this way. If a wagon on top of a hill is stopped it only takes a few stones to wedge in front of the wheel to keep it from ever moving. If those same stones are half way down the hill and the wagon is picking up speed as it rolls down the hill when the wagon encounters the stones it will run right over them (with a jarring bump) but the stones will not stop the forward progress of the wagon.
Minister of Discipleship. I believe his last statement is true. There are plenty of people in this world who love God but will never change their views of how church should be done. That is not to say there is no way God could intervene and change them but there are still probably some who will never change. If he means there is no way they COULD change then I have a problem with the statement. But there are some people who WILL not change. I don’t know about the idea of God killing them off. If that is the concept you are going with God was pretty inefficient in His efforts and lacking in His grace. I see it as God allowed their influence to dissolve. In that culture, that meant they had to die. It means something different in today’s culture. Influence is lost in many different ways today. It can simply be a majority vote. Or as great as a new minister being winning that influence.
I’m a Worship Arts Pastor, been pro for only a year, been a lay leader for about 6 or 8 before that, been involved with the church for a quarter century.
I think it’s true, and I’ll go further. I don’t think when churches die it’s always such a bad thing. Especially if other churches rise up to minister to the current culture. They had their place, time, and purpose, and it’s over if the church couldn’t change. Celebrate the lives changed rather than mourning the fact that that particular body doesn’t gather any more. The body of Christ is ALL of us as believers anyway, not just our little building and our little (or big) gathering of believers in one place.
Someday, the building that we worship in here in Western PA might be sold and re-built into some kind of business establishment, and perhaps our church as it exists now will cease.
If someone else down the street is affecting the culture and making disciples… who cares? The “church” has simply moved into “new wineskins.”
Just my $.02 and a half....
I am a lead pastor of a 185 year old church. I am in my 9th year of ministry in this congregation.
I can accept the reality that some people will never change. It is true in the church, it is true in the work place, it is true in relaitonships and family...it is true! Some people will never change.
At the same time, I can’t imagine Jesus ever saying anything like this. He said some pretty harsh things to the pharisees (see Matthew 23) but he never said, “Things will get better after you die or leave!” He did seem to teach the transformational power of the love of God.
To me, the quote treats people as the means to the end instead of the end in itself. Too often it seems like church leaders only value people if they are helping to bring in more people. In my church, some church members don’t agree with me. They many never change. Yet, they are valuable. (In some cases, they have actually spared us from some pretty foolish decisions.) I don’t think I should show them disrespect just because they don’t always “go along with the program” so to speak.
My two cents,
mdd
I don’t have a problem with people disagreeing with any particular decision or direction, depending on the spirt in which it is done. Some people will agree to disagree. Others will plant themselves in front of you and take a ‘I dare you to move me’ approach, and then sow dissent among others in the congregation. As is so often the case, it’s all about attitude.
I am in my 30th year of full-time ministry and am serving as a professor in a Christian University. My experience tells me that the author has a sense of perspective about potential turnaround times, but I believe it is a bit off (in general). The longer any church is in decline the longer it will take for any turnaround. The question is how long can you sustain the turnaround and maintain momentum?
I pastored a historic downtown church with a rich history dating back to George Washington. The church was built in the heydays of the “FIRST CHURCH” in the center of a growing (now metropolitan area) city. It had been in decline for decades (30-35 years). I spent five years and saw a turnaround and some sustained momentum (for about a year). But once the church leaders and the church were off life support they began to assert their congregational rule and got ahold of the church that was soon to grow past them. They did and began bucking and any further change. I saw the writing on the wall and went to another state to plant a church.
That downtown church now is falling apart physically, all the “founders” left are gone. Even sharing its facility is not going to save it from its inevitable death (Actually it is dead, they just haven’t had the funeral yet).
The issue here is not simply about how to get a church in decline turned around, but how to KEEP it growing...how do you see SUSTAINED MOMENTUM? That means having a passion for change and to realize you’ve gotta keep “workin’ on it!”
The “Spiritual” version of this story has to do with issues of obedience, inwardly focused churches and people and allowing the Holy Spirit to TRANSFORM lives! Salvation is a process, that is why we keep having to “work it out...” We must passionately embrace change if we are ever going to be the people God has transformed us to be.....that is the VERY THEOLOGICAL nature of this whole life change!
CHANGE
Come as you are
Leave different
That’s got to be our motto.
I’m a pastor.
Getting off the plateau depends so much on how well leadership can communicate AND impute the vision/enthusiasm on the followship. Therein lies the rub. You can have vision, values, strategy, intentionality--but many churches plateau because that’s YOUR thing and not THEIRS. In my experience, getting off the plateau often involves vision,etc. but also some kind of crisis (i.e., 1 million deaths in the desert) that either creates hunger or, as stated, removes the hinderances. This is why it’s easier to start the change, split the group, and leave to start a new work with the cooperative ( tongue is placed firmly in cheek). Instead of getting frustrated in a plateaued situation, I started experimenting without permission just to kind of shake things up (and maybe create a crisis). In order to effect change, you’re going to lose some people whether you can afford to or not. Are you willing to risk reaching critical mass (like teetering on the brink of closing the doors) in order to create the atmosphere in which change and growth can occur?
Much can be said about a work of the Holy Spirit; yes, it can start in one person’s heart. And the earlier post is correct--churches, like every organization, have a life cycle. Sometimes shutting the doors isn’t the worst thing that can happen. Poor stewardship of resources to keep a hopeless case afloat certainly is worse.
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