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Staff Communication:  What Senior Pastors Would Change

Orginally published on Wednesday, October 26, 2005 at 3:36 PM
by Todd Rhoades

A recent study by the Alban Institute asked a group of pastors what the one thing is they would change about their staff. Unsuprisingly, the number one response was communication....

Communication is the hardest thing to accomplish on a church staff.  And it's the responsibility of both the staff leader and the staff member.  But what did this group of senior pastors say they'd like to change about the communications between them and their staff at their church?  Here are the results:

  • To have honest communication about what is really going on.
  • To develop a climate where we can give each other helpful feedback on our work instead of just hoping or wondering if others feel OK about it.
  • To be able to speak honestly to one another in the spirit of encouragement, wanting each to have fruitful ministry within and beyond the congregation.
  • To continue to look for ways of improving communication throughout the entire staff.
  • To meet together on a regular basis, which is difficult because the other staff members are part time.

So... how does your church rate?  Are you able to have open, honest discussions about the issues that are really important, or do you dance around issues (or not discuss vital things at all?).  Is there an atmosphere of encouragement?  Is there teamwork and assistance to help each staff member successful?  Do you meet together regularly?  Do you like each other?

You can read the whole study here.

FOR DISCUSSION:  I'd be open to hear how you and your staff communicate.  What areas are you doing well in?  (What works for you?)  What areas are you really bombing in?


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  • Posted by

    Communication is key, whatever it takes communication must be real, honest, open.  This type of freedom must be cultivated for effective ministry to take place.

  • Posted by

    This happens to be the third church that I have served.  The first Church that I served was moderated to liberal, the next church was ultra conservative, and now I am on staff at a Presbyterian Church…sort of middle of the road, as are most Presbyterian Churches. 
    What I have discovered is that no matter how much one would try to open up effective lines of communication, the one thing that seems to prevent it more than anything else is structure or a lack thereof.  Keeping honest communication is often achieved best when one knows where to send it and receive information.  I have discovered that the majority of conflict comes when one sends the wrong message the wrong way, and on the other hand, when one receives the message from the wrong direction. 
    Other observations that I have made that would hinder open communication is a lack of understanding of a particular congregational culture.  This is also magnified if the structure of the church is misunderstood…things such as, who really has the authority in the church, or who is yielding authority in the structure of the church. 
    The solution that I would suggest is that the leadership has a clear orientation that would demonstrate the flow of information, as well as an updated organizational chart.  This would allow everyone in the church to see the levels and flow of communication. 
    Lastly, it is imperative that the church staff receive training on Matthew 18: 15-20.  I call this the Gossip Killer.  This will insure that communication flows not only in the right direction but also in a Biblical order.  The Lord has proven to me on many occasions that this is the best method of building or rebuilding a clear communication structure.  I hope this helps.

  • Posted by Pastor Chris

    I am a Family Pastor at a church with only two Pastors, myself and the Senior Pastor.  Communication is important; no one would disagree with that.

    We have great communication between us primarily because we have both created an atmosphere which is safe and open.  We are friends and communicate openly about new ideas, situations, problems, or whatever.

    We don’t set appointments to talk to one another, we just trust that we can share openly, all of the time. No set meeting times, just as atmosphere of open dialogue.

  • Posted by

    someone is Reading my Mind!
    Great article

  • Posted by J. R. Miller

    In my experience, every one of those items for what pastors “want” are hindered by the structure of the Pastor-Staff relationship. 

    I was in a church where the Sr. Pastor had the sole discretion on both hiring and firing.  When there are systemic problems, it is hard to have “honest” communicaiton when you know your view is a minority view and one which is critical of certain decisions. 

    If you want good communication, stop making the pastor the CEO and make the staff responsible to the Elders (in terms of job secrity).  This will free up staffers to be honest and open without fear of recrimination.

  • Posted by

    J.R.—making staff accountable to the elders would also open the door for incredible politics.  I think you’re right that the boss/staff relationship works against open communication, but it doesn’t have to shut it down. 

    I’ve been on staff with a very strong senior pastor.  He didn’t try to intimidate, but it was his nature.  But I worked hard to bring honesty to the table, even when I disagreed with him.  We had a great relationship.  A senior pastor worth his calling will welcome strong opinions in the appropriate place.

    Now, I’m a lead pastor.  I work hard to foster a solid relationship with my staff.  If a person doesn’t share with me, it’s not because they fear loosing their job.

    So I think that the atmosphere for open communication is fostered significantly by the leader.  If a leader isn’t getting the results he wants, then there needs to be a serious look at the situation.

  • Posted by

    I think opem communication is key.  I serve as an assistant pastor and find open communication with the senior pastor difficult. When it comes to hiring and firing staff members I find out when the decision has already been made.  I feel like my position title says I have power, but I don’t have any power when it comes to key decisions.  My opion is normally asked after the decision has been made. What do I do?

  • Posted by

    I’m afraid my experience leads me to be suspicious of pastors who say they want honest communication. In my experience, pastors are very threatened by anyone who disagrees with them, and they expect to be treated as “the authority”. I wish I could find someone who really wanted honesty. Haven’t yet.

  • Posted by

    Senior Pastors don’t really want communication unless it is praise for their accomplishments. This is what I have found to be true over and over again. Many times that only time they communicate with you is when someone has gone to them to complain about something you did that they didn’t like. Matthew 18 is rarely ever practiced.
    So many senior pastors just don’t listen...half of communication is listening...listening....listening.
    The Senior Pastors I have worked for who have been associates first are more sensitive to communication with their own associates. If the pastor has a servant mentality instead of a CEO mentality communication improves.

  • Posted by

    I feel sorry for some who have commented here and feel like their senior pastor does not listen to them.  I listen to my staff and I want their honest feedback on issues.  We have it every Tuesday during staff meeting and at other times when an issue arises and a staff memeber wants to talk.  That is the only way to minister well as a staff.  I don’t think the answer is to not have staff report to the senior pastor.  Someone has to lead and to have the staff report to a board leads to politics and a lack of production.  In fact, if the senior pastor is not over staff then he is a lame duck.  I think that if a senior pastor is not open to honest insight from his staff then it is probably due to insecurity on his part.  On the other hand, remember as a staff member for a senior pastor to “listen” to a staff member does not mean he has to agree with what the staff member says or wants.  There is a big difference there.  I listen, but I still have to lead.  Try going to your senior pastor with a humble spirit, seeking what is best for him and for the church, and be willing to trust his leadership.  I would not stay under a senior pastor whose leadership I did not trust.
    LarryB

  • Posted by

    I’ve worked in three environments. No communication with complete freedom (sounds good but wears out quickly) Micromanaged one sided communication (doesn’t last long and beats the heck out of you). And open free communication with direction and vision (ah true freedom) Sr. Pastors have to learn, they are the leader and they dictate the direction. I am the same guy in all three situations and of course I have responsibility, but needed a great leader to set the correct stage. That was not my job as a staff pastor.  Don’t take it lightly, I have talked to 1/2 dozen youth pastors who have quit in the past year or are in the process of quitting b/c they work in one of the first two. Let’s get real 3000 pastors are leaving ministry each month in the US and I think, mostly becasue of these things.  Lord Help us make the changes to keep staff pastors around for the duration!

  • Posted by Henry Judy

    Todd
    Great Post. My staff and I are big on communication, and use the usual stuff. However for projects we are working on together we use http://www.ibackup.com an online storage. For just a few bucks a month we can post all of the open files, graphics, notes music etc. for each person to pull down. It is great and far better than emailing since you are limited by size on emails.

    Check it out for it pays for itself in efficiency.

    Also check out my new blog location at http://www.henryjudy.typepad.com

    Later
    Henry

  • Posted by

    At my last staff assignment, the senior pastor demanded total honesty but did not model it. He would regularly omit inconvenient details or whitewash over things that didn’t turn out according to his plans.

    It was when I found out that he blatantly and repeatedly lied about my job status to both me and the congregation, that I knew it was over.

    The kicker is that every member of the board who was semi-conscious knew he was lying, but they were sworn to secrecy.

    Honesty is critical to communication. If a lead pastor expects honesty, he must model it first and not penalize honest feedback that he doesn’t like.

  • Posted by

    Communication is so important.  I think the staff should feel open enough with the Senior Pastor to disagree with him. 
    I can’t function under a leader who won’t let me think things out, and disagree with him. 
    Now I also think that staff need to uphold their pastor to the congregation.  In other words not put him down.  I mean ever (Unless moral failure etc.) Even if you disagree with the way a Pastor is doing something, you need to support him.  Staff should pray for the pastor rather than gripe about him.  I say that as a staff member myself.  Just some advice.

  • Posted by

    Ya know, I think it’s pretty sad that some people out there really don’t have a clue about their Pastor’s heart. If you’re in leadership and you can honestly say that God has called you to that position, then your Pastor’s heart is who you should have. There should be a clear line of communication in the relationship between you and your Pastor at all times. I have always been taught that our relationships with others are reflections of our relationship with God. So ask yourself, how clear is your line of communication? The bible says to submit unto authority. God is a miracle worker, not a magician. What is submitted to grows stronger, while what is resisted grows weaker. A very wise man once said “Where you are today is the results of your choices yesterday… And where you are tomorrow will be a result of the decisions you make today”. So make the decision today to get to know your Pastors heart and open the line of communication between you as a leader and your Pastor. Where communication stops, abnormality sets in. For this your relationship with your Pastor will grow stronger and in turn so will your relationship with God.

  • Posted by

    I want to add just a comment or two, and especially piggy-back on J. R. Miller’s assesment. I came from a church where the Sr. Pastor became the CEO and really withheld communcation. He used communication or the lack of to control and manipulate others. I don’t think because he was a “bad” guy but because he was emotionally insecure and basically “overwhelmed” in the ministry. The communication was mostly hearing about him and his struggles. He didn’t have time or energy to hear how his staff was doing. And any disagreement, or “ruffle” in the flow of things was met with a withdrawn, poor ole me, why are you persecuting me, type of response. J.R.’s comments came pretty close to my encounter. Honest and open and “safe” communication was shut down very early on upon his arrival. A key phrase was beginning to circulate when I resigned and that was He was quite “needy”. However, before I left I confronted him on all these issues, and tried to offer loving and safe counsel, so he could truly minister to the flock. When it came to open communication it mainly worked one way, “his” way. Again, he is not a terrible, awful person. Just terribly overwhelmed and emotionally damanged. And no one wanted to confront or come along side of him because of fearing his rejection or some undefined reprisal.

  • Posted by

    Just curious--do larger church staffs have time that they have pastors and wives getting together at least once in awhile? Since I have been here (5 years) I have not seen us get togther--once we did and then we had all the church deacons and wives with us.  I would think that meeting together would be a great way of relationship building and communication for the senior pastor to his staff.  We don’t even get togther when a pastor has a baby --wives for shower-- or birthdays--just nothing does it for us.  I know we are all busy but does the larger church staff forgo all this?  Just curious what others do.

  • Posted by

    Our staff doesn’t communicate at all! Our pastor often informs of programs and ministries when he informs the church.

    The problems are paramount. We are not a team. Pastor often competes with me. We cannot be honest with how things are going because that is viewed as being critical. Disagreement, not public but private, is viewed as being disloyal so there is no way for ideas to be swaped or shared.

    Staffs have to be a team, not just people that work together.

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