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What Happens When Pastors and Deacons go Clubbin’?

Orginally published on Wednesday, December 01, 2004 at 10:17 AM
by Todd Rhoades

I’m really interested to hear your comments on this… What would you find if you went ‘clubbin’ in your church’s neighborhood?  This is an article from the Monroe Area Free Press and written by Pastor Roosevelt Wright, Jr.  It is written from an African-American perspective...I haven?t been clubbing in over 30 years. Imagine my surprise in recent weekends as I visited a few local clubs and saw what I wasn?t supposed to see. What was I doing in the local clubs? Looking for you! 

Usually when churches have revival we spend big dollars to bring in a big time speaker who usually rakes in about $1,000 or more for three nights work and all the food he can take home afterwards. We post announcements with other churches, in the religious section of the newspaper and on the religious radio stations.

It?s obvious that we want church folks to come to the revival.

We get to wave our hands, stomp our feet. We enjoy the great preaching and singing. We have a good time and fool ourselves like we have actually been seeking the lost. That?s how we explain the cost. In reality, we spend thousands of dollars each year for Gospel entertainment in the name of revival.

Gospel entertainment has its place, but it?s certainly should not be confused with revival.

What would happen if all of the preachers, deacons, choir members, ushers and church folk would actually descend on the local clubs one night?

They might find what we found at Tabernacle when we did just that. We found a whole lot of church people among the crowds in local juke joints.

There were looks of surprise when some looked up and saw a church pastor, deacon and ministers coming into a juke joint.

One man who instantly recognized me, had his arm snuggly wrapped around a woman at table and almost choked.

?What the F?are you doing here?? He asked.

?What are you doing here is a better question. I?m looking for you.?

His next statement was loudly spoken in an inebriated breath, but nevertheless profound, ?I know you suppose to talk about going after the lost on Sunday, but you?re not suppose to really do it.!?

He then proceeded to warn everyone in the club that there was a preacher in the house.

He called me the next day to say, our presence was a real shocker and had disturbed him all day. ?It made me think.?

We went from club to club, paid our entrance fee and moved through the crowds passing out a little card that said, ?If tonight is the night that God chooses to visit you, would he be pleased with where he found you, what you are doing right now, and what you planning to do later on tonight??

One woman read the card on a dance floor and was convicted. She stopped dancing, got her purse and left, visibly upset.

I recognized a few young church people at a club in North Monroe and old church people at a watering hole in Booker T. I saw a few others at a Berg Jones Lane night spot.

The parking lots were full, despite a driving rain one night.

Some tried to explain to us why they were there. The words never came out right.

I wondered how many of those same church folk would attend a Sunday church service if they had to pay to get in, the lights were out, there was thick smoke in the air, trash on the floor, and the smell of intoxication everywhere.

I saw what I wasn?t supposed to see. I saw the other life of some people who attend our local churches. I saw two lives that are kept separate and distinct because preachers, deacons and Sunday School teachers are supposed to stay in their place as ?church folk? stay in their place.

It?s the same two lives I led when I was a young college student showing up at Tabernacle on Sunday and cutting the rug at the Town and Country or the Den on Winnsboro Road.

I kept those two lives separate until one day they clashed. One had to go.

Early, Sunday morning we were still out in the clubs passing out cards seeing what we were not supposed to see. What we saw were honest people, having what they considered to be a good time. They were not breaking any laws or being disruptive. They were just ?out.?

Many of them switch back and forth between the clubs at night and church on Sunday morning, until they finally fail to show up at one or the other.

Until they finally decide, they simply play the game.

We made the mistake of appearing in a way that caused both of their lives to clash. We broke the rule. Revival is supposed to mean Gospel Entertainment, not seeking the lost of the backslidden.

The words of the inebriated man still ring in my ears:

?I know you supposed to talk about going after the lost on Sunday, but you?re not supposed to really do it.!?

What an indictment!

What are your thoughts?


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  • Posted by

    Finally! How refreshing to hear of a pastor and leaders of the church stepping out into the secular culture and being the salt and light we are called to be.  This pastor is on the right track.  I think the fear of of what the so called “righteouss” of the church body might think of a christian leader going into a club, or bar keeps them from seeking and shepherding the lost. 
    Jesus hung with the the ones who needed him most.  The crowds that followed Him were prostitutes, liars, tax collectors, drunks, and just regular folks that were caught in a trap of deception and lies resulting in sin.  And He found them, not the other way around. Why? Because He was seeking them.
    I hope that more pastors, leaders and christians in general would have the courage to step out, remember that we are called to be “in the world, not of the world”.  Being redeemed doesn’t make us elite, and we are not sinners simply by association. 
    When Jesus commanded us to fulfill the Great Comission, He said all the world, that includes everywhere the unsaved are. I don’t remember Him giving any stipulations that we should only go to the reputable establishments. I think He would be very pleased if the rest of us got back to the basics and followed more closely His example.

  • Posted by Stan

    I ministered for 25 years as a street evangelist to bikers.  A lot of my ministry took place in “clubs” and the like.  Don’t ever think God won’t send you there because of what you believe.  God had to change my thinking in order to get me into the places where ministry could take place.

  • Posted by

    You mean I can’t just wait for the sinners to come to me, but I have to go out and seek them?  Too bad a lot of Christians seem to feel that way.  When the church decides to raise up and minister to the lost, we will see a great clash of power.  The media is already indignant that Christians are voting their concience, regardless of political party.  That we would dare to bring our values out in public and express our beliefs is unaceptable to the unsaved.  But it is essential to doing God’s work.  Go get em!!!

  • Posted by

    When else is an American male (especially those involved in church work) going to get a chance to sit down and actually have a real conversation with a bona-fide non-believer except at a bar?  Its the natural place for those not following Christ to go with their problems, and so some Christians (not all) need to go there as well.  I think it is realistically the contemporary and cultural equivalent of what Jesus practiced. 
    This week I went to a bar to watch Monday night Football with my neighbor, and we got farther in our relationship than we would ever have if I just left it to small talk on the front lawn.  I now have the relational clout with this guy to actually invite him to a church event. 
    Sooner or later, if the church wants to get serious about winning the lost for Christ we are going to have to go and meet them on their turf, they certainly aren’t going to come to ours.  As the Master said “go out to the roads and country lanes and make them come in, so that my house will be full.” (Luke 14:23)

  • Posted by

    OK, instead of WWJD it’s WWJB...Where Would Jesus Be?
    When He was here where was He? With those that needed Him. If He were here today it would be the same thing, He’d be at the clubs or bars NOT at the first church of the great stained glass window down on Main St. they wouldn’t want him there, too much conviction for them for not doing what they are supposed to be doing...GOING after the lost( or if you prefer “unchurched"). Believe me they ain’t coming to you, you have to go after them and if you go after them with the same mentality that the church has been using since the 50’s don’t bother. You have to realize you are to be like Jesus was, loving, non judgemental, and full of the power of God with signs and miracles.
    That’s what the world needs, I’ve had enough of people playing church and having no proof of the power of God inside. We’ve become social clubs with a diluted gospel, I’ve had enough. So go to the clubs, you may find me there, I’ll buy you a drink and we can talk about Jesus. Who knows you may even get me back into church...NOT

    later

  • Posted by

    First let me say that at the beginning of the article I was lost on the direction of the target “It is written from an African-American perspective...” What matter does it make whose perspective? There are people who are lost in the Hip Hop club’s, Cowboy clubs, Steeper Club’s and such on Saturdays and attend church on Sundays. We no longer need just revival in the church but restoration and repentance. I will take a TEAM to witness at a club but God help us if I have to minister to church members in the club!

  • Posted by

    I am curious.....are you seeking the lost with love in your heart or have you appointed yourself to be a member of God’s police squad?

    As a former “clubber” I can assure you that if I saw you in the local bar passing out your cards.....and obviously taking the task upon yourself to judge....I would have been driven even further from Jesus than I was.

    Perhaps you would have been more effective sitting in the parking lot with an attitude of service to drive those individuals home who should not be behind the wheel?

    Or....later personally and privately talking with your fellow church members you saw there out of love and compassion?????

    Coming home and spending some time on your own knees to pray for these people.

    Sorry to be critical but this hit a nerve with me.

    Diane

  • Posted by

    I think most of you are misreading the article.  You are reading into your own perspective and perferences.  The pastor and deacons did not really go clubbin, go to party at the club.  I don’t see any mention of them buying drinks or doing any dancing.  They didn’t go to hang out with the lost but to get the saved out of the clubs. I know a lot of you would rather hang out in clubs and are looking for some justification to do so but this article doesn’t give it.  It condemns the living of two lives.  I don’t think the card they pasted out is the message most of you would share.  I don’t think the man who was repentant in the story woud have been if the pastor had said, “Hey, the next round is on me.” I don’t think the woman that fled the club would have done so if the pastor had said, “Can I have this dance?” Sinnes came to Jesus because he was the light that revealed their sin and offering forviveness and the power to live differently.  Not because he shared the darkness with them.  I hear too many people drawing unwarranted conclusion from the Jesus eating and drinking with tax collectors and sinners.  They want to equate a normal social gather of Jesus day with the party life and ignore everything else the Bible says. 

    The Bible and the Postmodern Christian.

    The Bible: Avoid every kind of evil. 1 Thess. 5:22
    The Postmodern Bible:  Avoid every kind of righteousness.

    The Bible:  Flee the evil desires of youth, 2 Timothy 2:22
    The Postmodern Bible; Embrace the evil desires of youth.

    The neighborhood bar MIGHT be different but a club is about sex, drunkness, and drugs. A select few might minister in clubs.  But most should stay far away and not use ministsry as a cover for indulging in sin.

  • Posted by

    i think we’re choosing to be ignorant if we think that the only reason people go into places like this is to hook up with someone or get wasted.  i can’t tell you how many times i and/or my friends have gone to a club or bar and had neither of these things happen - ever.  i fully agree with diane, scooter, and mike m.  i would’ve been turned off had you given me a card like that because you didn’t approach me in private, you embarrassed me, and you didn’t do it in a loving way. 

    until i was willing to walk into a bar and enjoy 1 or 2 drinks with co-workers, i had no clout with them, b/c they thought i was just a stuffed-shirt, fundamentalist church-goer who couldn’t possibly understand their lot in life.  i tried to do what i read about Jesus doing, and i went onto their turf.  i had a cocktail (1, mind you, which is not a sin), and we talked about life and their marriages and their kids and they realized i was real.  and after that our relationship was totally different, more open, more honest.  they weren’t afraid to talk to me b/c they knew i wasn’t going to judge them.

    some day we’ll realize that guilt-tripping people doesn’t save them.  and scaring them into thinking God might zap them if they do something wrong won’t save them.  God is pleased with us b/c he created us.  we are forgiven for sins past, present, and future.

    my non-Christian friends won’t get near our stuffy, unfriendly church buildings.  but they’ll ask me about who Jesus was, and what he meant, and other much more important things at work, during lunch break, out for drinks at a bar or club… i personally could care less about what they think of my church.  i want to make sure that they’re opinion of Christ is as it should be, and Jesus would be hanging out with them, meeting where they are, and loving them into a better life.

  • Posted by

    i find it hard to believe that i have read posts attached to this article that condone drinking by christians to build relationships and villify these men for passing out cards in bars that focus on how God feels about sin. rest assured in two facts: 1. Jesus does not support acts of “missionary sinfullness” that endear you to your lost friends. 2. People would only be angry or embarrassed by these men if they came under conviction. i find it curious that we must tolerate everything in america except christianity. please feel free to e-mail me with any debate you may have regarding these points or any others.

  • Posted by

    Firstly, this weird understanding (of some) that equate drinking with sinfulness is very very american.

    I preached across the US earlier this year, and found there to be widepsread condemnation for any christian or pastor who drank (and I am talking about moderation here) alcohol - BUT smoking - well, that was entirely different.  Let’s all puff away after the service.

    For me, some of the greatest times of ministry I have ever had, was sitting at a bar with a glass of beer just talking.

    Stop being so self righteous and indignant jeff (and others).  Living with Jesus is always more relational than lawful.

    Sorry to say - but some of ‘christian
    America’ is just nuts.

  • Posted by

    Loved Mike’s comments. True story: I was camping in Idaho and a pastor friend of mine knew that and asked me to preach for him on Sunday.

    I showed up in town Saturday afternoon with my family and had difficulty finding a motel room, being treated with respect in stores, etc. Why? I discovered I was the only man in that small town with a beard.

    On Sunday morning, I preached there to a resistant audience because, as I had correctly surmised, I had a beard. Yet there in the fourth pew, during the entire service, was a fellow who was chewin’ and spitting into a cup!

    Beards--a no-no, probably a hippie. Tobacco--well, everyone has a chaw now and then!

  • Posted by

    My Brothers and my Sisters of all the world.  To anyone that may read this message.  There will be no common ground in this world for all to agree upon.  Jesus came to give man an opportunity to get out from under the bondage that this life brings.  He is the true light of the world and all that follow him will walk in that light.  What is the light?  The true light is separation from darkness (sin) and Walking with a clear conscience striving to live a life that clearly sets you aside from the world.  We are in the world but we are not of the world.  Christians go to church at least one day a week.  The other six days they spend talking to those same people that are in the club.  I agree with the one minister that stated “God help us if we have to minister to church folks in the clubs” The true problem is faithfulness.  If the church folks would be faithful and stay out of the club to display that their is a better life in Christ Jesus, I truly believe that after a few trials and tribulations the lost would listen during the week and seek the better life.  Most people go to the club to just relax from the everyday pressures of life.  Christians go to church to praise God for delivering them from the everyday pressures of life.  You choose.  Please, everyone stop making excuses for your own unwillingness to decipline yourself.  It is the untruth to think that people in the club don’t know about Jesus and it is the untruth to keep saying what Jesus would have done, when he is One and belivers are many. Jesus is all over the world.
    Let me say this I am not against ministering in the club.  If God leads you to do that then my prayers and support are with you, but there is no way I would send my sheep into the lions den.
    Stop using Love as a crutch and help people to change by not participating or condoning ungodly acts.
    Christians, separate yourselves in actions and deeds.  Live the life that God has called you to live, a life that men would have no reason to accuse you.  Press for the mark of the higher calling.  The lost will be compelled by your light and change will take place.  God bless all of you and I hope to see you on the other side.

    Apostle Bruce

  • Posted by

    Okay...enough of this silliness...we were all single at one time and i would guess that 90% of us went to clubs at that time and the reasons were the same.

    1. to drink (so we could loosen up and hook up with someone)

    2. To socialize with friends and co workers (and hook up with someone.)

    3. To buy prospective hook ups a drink (to loosen them up)

    4. To hook up with a person before the end of the night.

    Reality check - not once did I discuss “Jesus” with anyone in the club--you might “save” them, but it would defeat the purpose of clubbing (hooking up with someone.)

    Not once did I hear a philosophical or religious discussion...between the music, dancing, drinking, the conquests (of both sexes), and everyone trying to find someone...I am sorry but discussing Jesus just was not on anyones mind.

    I applaud this men on a bold step to go into the world and see what they were not supposed to see.

    The Lost - where else would they go to lose themselves if only for a few hours.  Where else can you find a more receptive audience to the gospel...as long as you follow up afterwards I cannot find a better field to harvest.

    The Saved - the reality is we (especially singles) lead 2 completely separate lives.  Church and ministry is fine but this is MY time to do what I want while I am young.  The truth is it is NOT my life, I gave that to Jesus a long time ago...I wished I had a pastor catch me in a bar while I was young and wild, even at the risk of turning me off… it could have saved me a lot of wasted time, money, and my Christian witness…

    sorry barguys and bar gals...but even Jesus confronted the religious when he found them doing what was wrong and even turned alot of them off (they crucified Him).  You guys need to have a gutcheck and a heart check.

  • Posted by

    Agree with Diane and her suggested approach.  “Pastorial clubbin” is nothing more than a church sponsored “witchhunt” and would further drive away some of the carnal Christians in the congregation. It’s offensive and totally out of character with any church position!  This tactic would hit CNN tomorrow and bring more fire toward Christians from the unsaved liberals. Being in club parking lots after hours to drive folks home is being sincerely concerned about saving lives, is what Jesus would do and frankly a great evangelistic street ministry.  No better time and place to start saving physical and spiritual lives before it’s too late. If Christians start drinking in bars and clubs what would make us any different than the lost? Why would anyone want to be Christian if we’re no better off than the lost? We’re suppose to be more Christlike and not to conform to this world’s ways! Rom 12.2 Please people let the Holy Spirit continue His job of conviction in bars, clubs and the likes toward those going astray. God Bless

  • Posted by

    Bravo Terry.  If you read throughout the Bible Jesus and his followers did one thing in common....they called sin, sin and departed away from it.  I have never been a clubber and since I have been married for almost 16 years probably never will be one.  But I am a pastor with 2 children and I don’t want them to see in my life that there is no seperation between the worlds morals and mine.  How could I stand before God knowing it was my example that caused my sons to become alcoholics?  But I know I could stand before God with NO problem if my boys had led righteous lives and lived for God and became Godly men that resisted evil because of my example.  So let me ask you this what do you want your children doing at night or on the weekends.... hooking up as one has said or hopping bars as a clubber or being around Godly friends and still having a great time.  If they were standing before God would it be better to be safe than SORRY?
    I don’t know that my area is to go into bars and pass out cards to the clubbers, but it is to go into the highways and biways and compell them to come.  I minister to close to 300 kids a week and the thought that some of them may have such liberal minded parents sickens my heart.
    So let stand up for righteous living and have some kind of seperation in our lives.  Something in us has to be an example to others.  True story: my wife went to see her doctor.  Her dr. told us that that morning he led a 55+/- year old lady to the Lord in his office.  Did she see something different in him? why yes she did.  Others will see something different in us if we have it to show.
    Tootles.....

  • Posted by Dale Gustavson

    The Bible Says:

    According to Mark 14:25, Jesus drank wine when he was on Earth and will drink it again in Heaven.  After instituting the Lord’s Supper, Jesus said, “Assuredly, I say to you, I will no longer drink of the fruit of the vine until that day when I drink it new in the kingdom of God.” If Jesus didn’t already drink, there would be no need for Him to say “no longer.” If the Father didn’t approve of drinking wine, Jesus would not tell us He would, “… drink it new in the kingdom of God.”

    Drunkenness, on the other hand, IS declared a sin in many passages in Scripture. So too are the list of “No-Nos” commonly referred to as the Seven Deadly Sins:  Pride, avarice/greed, envy, wrath/anger, lust, gluttony and sloth. 

    For an well-written little summary of the “Seven Deadlies,” visit http://www.whitestonejournal.com/seven/. Click on each of the seven “Vices” for an expanded definition of each.  Helpful for putting the issue of sin into perspective. 

    In 1Corinthians 10:23, the Apostle Paul writes, “All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful; all things are lawful for me, but not all things edify”.  After an enlightening teaching on the subject of conscience, using food offered to idols” as an example, in Verse 31 Paul continues, “Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God”. 

    It is not be helpful to be so full of booze that you swear at the pastors/deacons who show up your club.  It is not very edifying for the pastors/deacons to show up to “bust people for Jesus.”

    I Say:

    I think we should take inspiration from this pastor and his leaders and start handing out our cards to Christians who eat too much at McDonalds.  Anyone more than twenty pounds overweight who “Supersizes” should be asked to leave the church.

    But Seriously Folks:

    I’m a pastor.  I drink.  My wife and I think it hospitable to provide the option of wine with dinners we host at home.  (So, apparently, did Jesus who turned water into outstanding wine to make a wedding party more enjoyable for the guests.  John 2:6-10.) I can’t tell you how much ministry and relationship-building has been done over a good meal accompanied by fine wine, or even bad wine as is the case with White Zinfandel. 

    My wife and I also go to clubs occasionally.  (We don’t drink to loosen each other up, by-the-way!  Having a glass of wine or two over several hours does make it easier for me to relax, however.) The primary reason we go to those clubs is that we happen like live music.  We especially like to go to clubs where Christian musicians are playing, particularly Christian musicians we know personally.  Both they and the non-Christian members of their bands see that we can drink in moderation, and that we don’t judge them for where they work.  They can see that we truly appreciate their abilities and are willing to spend our money in a way that helps them feed their families.  I love it when we find a way to let it be known to the club/restaurant staff members that we are a pastor and his wife. We’re safe in doing so because we actually tip cocktail waitresses handsomely for a job well done.

    My resume is posted at ChurchStaffing.com, filed under “Glutton and winebibber; friend of tax collectors and sinners.” grin

    Dale Gustavson, AKA:  PastorGus

  • Posted by

    Mark 9
    38"Teacher," said John, “we saw a man driving out demons in your name and we told him to stop, because he was not one of us.”
    39"Do not stop him,” Jesus said. “No one who does a miracle in my name can in the next moment say anything bad about me, 40for whoever is not against us is for us. 41I tell you the truth, anyone who gives you a cup of water in my name because you belong to Christ will certainly not lose his reward.

    (Point #1 - recognize the difference between beliefs formed by our culture which cause us to view certain gray areas differently.
    Point #2 - leave the judgement of fellow believers who do an act in Christ’s name to Christ)

    Causing to Sin

    42"And if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone tied around his neck. 43If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out.[3] 45And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than to have two feet and be thrown into hell.[4] 47And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell, 48where
    “ ‘their worm does not die,
    and the fire is not quenched.’[5] 49Everyone will be salted with fire.
    50"Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can you make it salty again? Have salt in yourselves, and be at peace with each other.”

    (Point #3 - Spend much time contemplating our own hearts and actions and less time judging fellow christians. 
    Point #4 - Consider carefully how our own actions may affect those weaker brothers and sisters among us.
    Point #5 - Do your best with the above and leave the rest with God - He is big enough to handle our differences

    Blessings Friends.

  • Posted by

    We can all quote scriptures and disagree all day, but all I know is that I thank Jesus that a man of God came and got me from out of my mess!!!  I did come to church on my own accord.  It took the obidiance of a Minister of Jesus Christ to come and reach out to me where I was at!!!

    Just “John” AKA:Uncle John
    “a follower of Jesus”

  • Posted by

    What is this all about - people who drink and who need to be “saved”,or Pastors who choose to live in society, instead of condemning it? I am a padtor, have been for years.  I drink.  I go out.  And I do so with parishioners.  And I believe they are closer God because of it.  They see the balance between religion and society.  They see a Pastor who leads a normal life.  This self righteous, hand out cards that say “you who are here are worthless sinneers” attitude doesn’t bring people home to God.  Get over yourselves.

  • Posted by

    I can only assume that the multiple charges levied by the ultra-religious against Jesus of being one who ate and drank with sinners, or a drunkard were not baseless. If so, we can reasonably ascertain that Jesus DID have a glass of wine with friends now and then.  I find Jesus response in Luke 7:34-35 challenging: The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and “sinners.”’ But wisdom is proved right by all her children.” On it’s face, it appears that Jesus was concerned about results (success in seeking and saving what was lost) than in methodology.  I read a great book two summers ago which challenged me personally, Michael Simpson’s “Permission Evangelism.” In commenting on Jesus methodologies of evangelizing he remarked (pp. 128)“Christ embraced, honored, and dined with sinners because he had God’s heart… Christ didn’t just hang out with sinners; he initiated contact, enjoyed their presence, accepted their gifts, and publicly defended them.  He let them know that he sympathized with the plight of the impact from their sins, but never condoned those sins, participated in them, or hid his concern.  Christ went to great lengths to let the lost know he understood them, honored them, and had their best interests in mind even to the point of death… Christ went to where the broken, sick, and sinful people could be found.  He did not demand their repentance before he spent time with them.” That last statement has truly challenged me --to become intentional and strategic in befriending my irreligious neighbors, gas station owners, local party store owners, and a whole host of other people whom I’ve become intentional about becoming freinds with. I agree with Michael’s next statement: “As individuals, and as the church, we are called to develop that very same heart.” Frankly, it appears to me that Jesus had a “whatever it takes” attitude towards finding “lost” people and healing hurting people.  Jesus went to where sinners were. and ate and drank with them, yet was “without sin,” then we should be able to develop a an evangelistic lifestyle which engages “sinners” and “lost” people without sinning and getting lostin sin ourselves?  I admitted to those in our outreach service two days ago that, during our Passion of The Christ marketing, I had darkened the door of a local sports bar -packed full of the “target” of our Sun. eve “postmodern” outreach service- to pass out free passes to the movie, but neglected to stay for a beer with the manager for two reasons: 1) I didn’t want to smell like smoke and 2) I didn’t really want anyone I knew seeing me in there or coming out of there.  I regret being more concerned about how I’d explain smelling like smoke, or being seen in or coming out of a bar to someone I knew, than in graciously accepting the manager’s invitation to have a beer with him.  Maybe he didn’t accept my invitation to the movie or one of my services because I didn’t accept his?  Some of the worship team of our “postmodern” service want to go to that bar on karaoke night, join the patrons in singing, and invite them to join them in return on Sun. pms at our place.  What would you do?

  • Posted by Bernie Dehler

    It was a good article to encourage us to be like Jesus.  Moderation is needed.  We need to be “in the world, but not of it.”

    I think having a friendly presence is great.  Handing out cards may be too far, but it’s debateable.

    There’s nothing wrong with drinking, unless it’s drinking to feel funny.  What’s the point? Do we need drugs to loosen up?  I don’t think so.

    Dancing is ok, unless it’s dancing that is out of line.

    Dancing and drinking is not a sin in itself; but rather the degree of it, and the reason for it.  King David danced in praise to God, and was despised for it.  Jesus drank, and was despised (by the self-righteous) for it.

    Simple rule: Be in the world, but not of it.  I think deep down, we all know what that means-- follow the heart, instead of looking for legalistic explanations and rules…

    ...Bernie
    http://www.FreeGoodNews.com

    And by the way, yes, I think the lost do sometimes come to the Church (in general) looking for answers, and I also believe that the Church (in general) is usually not prepared for it… in follow-up, friendly contacts, etc.

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    As a pastor for 25 years I understand what he is saying. Now as an evangelist I realize that most of what I do is to pump up the saints. As I read about the gift of evangelist I came to understand that we are to bring in the lost so that the pastor can equip the for service. an this was not ment that a traviling preacher should go out and excit the saints. The true evangelist is the person in the church who as Phillp did said come and see.
    That pastor as my prayers that those in the church will see what he is trying to say.
    Rick Fannie

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    i think its great to see that im 16 and i never have been to a club or even a party(excluding church partys)my mom never let me and i dont go behind her back because shes never been behind my own well i think if people raised kids like they used to or even like my parents raised me that we would not have to go to clubs to find them

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    A few thoughts for Christian drinkers:
    Isn’t that pitiful? a 16 year old girl reading this, trying to establish her own boundaries and what Christ would have her to do. People of God, I agree with your understanding of Biblical times that they were not drinking Welch’s grape juice. Yet this must certainly fall in the category that Paul discussed of needlessly offending our weaker brethren, for whom Christ died. I know most people where I live would call it worldly, at best, for a person to drink alcoholic beverages. Most will smile to your face (being at ease in their flesh from the conviction they won’t feel from you’re choosing to behave as they do) and when you leave their circle, will call you a hypocrite. Maybe you’re on a campaign or feel called to teach this neglected truth to your community: it’s OK to drink, just don’t get drunk. But many who get drunk never plan to do so, especially 16 year old Christian girls, who’ve never tasted “the forbidden fruit” of the vine. And there is no need to talk about what those naive Christian boys, out for a social drink with them, will do when they see this incapacitated one in the flower of her innocence lying before them. Maybe you want to prove to yourself that you can drink and not get drunk. Or you’ve swallowed that cankered cup of hemlock that Satan has passed to fledgling Christian witnesses for ages: “if you don’t __, they’ll think you consider yourself to be better than they are; and then you can’t be an effective witness.” Awake to righteousness, keep your light on. You are different, and you have One within you to offer them that is better than they are, Christ Jesus. Honestly examine yourselves if this behavior is truly how Christ would have you to conduct His Father’s business. I trust you will make the right choice.

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