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What the @$&*?  Ed Young Swears to Prove a Point:  Don’t Swear

Orginally published on Tuesday, June 02, 2009 at 7:40 AM
by Todd Rhoades


This should be fun. Watch this by Ed Young, Jr.



A couple of ironies here for me... really...

1.  I would ask Ed… Is it necessary to curse in an admonition to other pastors not to curse?  Did he not do that to grab our attention?  Is that not EXACTLY the SAME THING that he accuses pastors who curse of doing? I mean… what the hell?  (There I did it… please don’t do that… it’s not necessary).

2.  I find it somewhat ironic that Ed Young would get on pastors for doing something because it was ‘cool’.  I think Ed is the epitome of ‘cool’.  That’s kind of his reputation.  No, it IS his reputation.  Over the top cool.  Something’s not right with that cool. 

Don’t get me wrong, I think Ed’s ok.  I just find it funny that one area he feels ‘very strongly about’ is that of language.

Anyone else find it ironic?


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  There are 68 Comments:

  • Posted by Paul Bowman

    Yeah, a little ironic....

    He should hear Tony Campolo’s talk about how so many 10’s of thousands of children die every day, but we don’t give a $%*@. But, then follows it up by saying, “and what’s worse is that most of you are more concerned about the fact that I just said %$*@ than you are the fact that so many children are dying every day!” Slam!

    I agree though, we should be cautious about using foul language in order to sound relevant.

  • Posted by Adam McLane

    I love your point #2. Lots of irony. Certainly, Ed Young’s publicity stunt with the 7 days of sex provided one of the most awkward/embarrassing moments in recent TV/church history. I’d rather a pastor say “crap” than tell me how many times he’s slept with his wife in the past week.

    I elaborated a bit more here: http://eepurl.com/byn-

  • Posted by

    Ed is right in that there are a lot of words we can use instead of curse words.  I think too much cursing is done form the pulpit these days in a lot of churches.  I might not agree that all the words Ed thinks are curse words are curse words, some are just the vernacular of our times… and I might not think Ed the expert on the motives of other pastors. 

    Without making this about Ed, where do you draw the line?  I also think it is not just about swearing but about content too.

  • Posted by

    I also agree that some of the words he seemed to regard as ‘foul’ aren’t words that are foul in my circle of influence or congregation.  I do see that we don’t want to declare anything ‘dirty’ that God hasn’t declared ‘dirty’.  I do think we need to speak intentionally and we need to embrace the freedom that we have while making sure that we aren’t contradicting our message.

    Along those same lines:  I would be interested in hearing a counterpoint argument.  I know that the pastors who are using this language are people of God so I know they have a reason for using actual ‘curse’ words (not words like ‘crap’ and ‘pissed’ and ‘screwed’ but actual curse words) and I would DEFINITELY be interested in hearing it…

  • Posted by

    uh.....I’m not worried about his cursing...but I definitely wouldn’t want to be in traffic with a guy talking to a video camera while driving.

    I’m waiting for the out takes when he smashes into the car ahead of him!

    Bet that’s full of cursing!

  • Posted by

    Sorry, but Young Jr. doesn’t have the reputation or track record to even make a statement like this.  With the shenanigans that he has put on in recent years, including the, “Sex Challenge,” saying how he comes up with sermons the day before worship between workouts, and all the other notoriety that goes along with it, that discounts him from being able to make these sorts of messages, as true and as relevant as they may be. 

    --
    CS

  • Posted by

    Being lectured by Ed on chasing cool is like Tony Soprano lecturing me on law and order.

  • Posted by

    Geoff,

    That’s the funniest thing I’ve read in a while.  I’m still laughing!

  • Posted by Josh R

    I really don’t have a problem with swearing.  I think we are way to legalistic about it..  There is no list of words we should not say in the bible.  When talking about sin, I think that the bible is often quite profane itself.  Look at Jeremiah 2:20 for example.  That is graphically profane.  How about Galatians 5:12?  If a preacher said something like that today, it would be considered “Unchristian” by most.

    I think the real issue is that many folks use cuss words as punctuation.  They describe things that are not profane with profane terms.  Only Sinful and corrupt things ought to be described with such language.
    When we complain about the relatively trivial trials in life that God placed in our lives to refine us, and to sanctify us, it is insulting God.  It is either a denial of God’s sovreignty over the issue, or it is a cursing God for his discipline.  Either way, not good.

  • Posted by movers

    While I don’t think everything he said is really a curse word, I do agree that that sort of language should not be heard in church. Also, I’m a bit concerned that he is driving while talking and recording this. That seems dangerous. I wonder if he did that to seem “cool” too…

  • Crap. Im screwed.  It sucks to be me. Good thing I believe in eternal security or i’d burn in hell probably. Thankfully he didnt mention fart though.  I said that 20 times once.

  • Posted by

    I know a pastor who thinks it’s OK to cuss as long as your’re him and you’re mad. His whole family does it. They call it,"using their Cowboy Words.” That makes it OK.

  • Posted by Joshua Ballard

    I was waiting for Ed to actually swear, and was left waiting till the end.

    I agree that the gospel is offensive enough, but in the circles I travel, substituting darn, poop and the like for some of the heavier words simply reeks of pretentious pharisaism rather than “offence”.

    I agree with the scriptures that abusive speech is out, but I would argue that abuse can only be determined by the one being abused. If the one being abused happens to be a Christian, they should defer to the obviously weaker brethren who continue to pepper their speech with certain four letter words that remain on an unknown apocryphal parchment somewhere.

  • Posted by

    Joshua said, “I was waiting for Ed to actually swear, and was left waiting till the end.”

    Movers said, “While I don’t think everything he said is really a curse word”

    Josh R said, “I really don’t have a problem with swearing.  I think we are way to legalistic about it..  “

    Q said “I also agree that some of the words he seemed to regard as ‘foul’ aren’t words that are foul in my circle of influence or congregation”

    Leanord said, “I might not agree that all the words Ed thinks are curse words are curse words, some are just the vernacular of our times”

    May I recomend a good sermon on this topic, it should help clarify appropriate language for believers and church leaders.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EFXP04ke2o

  • Posted by Peter Hamm

    Who was the audience on this? Sounds like it was pastors and leaders, not a church congregation.

    I don’t see much of an issue here. Ed is right. We should be careful about the words we use, and about the meaning behind them. Any word can be a cuss word at that point. And he used some that many I associate with have no problem with, some “borderline words”, imho.

    That said, different words are dirtier than others in different cultures. I remember using what I thought was a very innocuous word in congregation with somebody from another English-speaking country, only to find out that that word was EXTREMELY profane there… And some we use here that are very profane aren’t considered as much elsewhere…

    Culture and content. that’s what we need to watch.

  • Posted by

    Peter,

    Since when does the church allow the culture to determine what words are acceptable or not?

    I think that we would all agree 50 years ago the words that Ed used would be forbidden in the church and even in our mainstream culture also. Shouldn’t the church stand as a light to show the culture how it’s moved further away from what is good?

  • Posted by

    Ed is absolutely right.  We are to be in the world, but not of it, and we are not to be conformed to this world.  When we communicate as the world does, what makes us any different?  Or, when we lie, steal, commiit adultry, covet riches, or commit any othe sin in front of the world, what do we have to offer them that is any different than what they already have, or demonstrate a life being lived any differently than the way they are already living?
    This is not legalism, this is obedience to the call to be a Holy people. 

    Have forgotten that we are to be a holy people?  Unfortunately, the way we communicate, or values, and our behavior, far too often looks more like the rest of the world than being an example ofGodliness.

  • Posted by

    Job,

    Culture absolutely determines which words are acceptable or not.  There’s nothing inherently evil about any combination of letters.  It’s the cultural connotations that we’ve attached to them that make people call certain words “bad”.

    If you and I heard someone exclaim “egad!”, we probably wouldn’t think anything of it though in its day, the word was a mild expletive.  It was a corruption of “by God!” http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/egad

    And I’d be slow to idealize the culture of the late-1950s as a golden age when people took the Word of God seriously.  If that had been the case, we wouldn’t have needed a Civil Rights Movement!

  • Posted by Peter Hamm

    JOB,

    You’re missing my point I’m afraid. The S-word, for instance, has not always been considered foul by everybody. It’s a relatively new happening. In fact, it is the word that farmers use, without it being “dirty” or foul. I have heard compelling arguments that it is in fact the best translation of the word “skubalon” which Paul uses to say he considers everything “rubbish” (or, more accurately in the KJV, “dung").

    The word that offended my friend from New Zealand is a better example. It was a totally innocuous word, considered completely inoffensive to anybody… except a Kiwi.

    It’s about the church being sensitive to culture, not being dictated by it.

  • Posted by pete wilson

    Very ironic.

  • Posted by

    Peter, I agree that there are words that in the culture of for example a farm that would not be considered swearing on a farm, but I know a lot of farmers who would consider the same word as swearing if it were in church. 

    I believe there are words that are swearing in america that will always be swearing in america when it comes to the pulpit… simply becasue my culture has no problem with it does not make it not a swear word.  Simply because my culture has no problem with it does not mean there are not better words. 

    I think the reaction of surprise in secular people indicates that these words are somewhat taboo.

    That said, I also am not sure of the use of some words that Ed gives us.  I do not use swear words nor do I use sexual inuendo, double meanings, suggestive talk.  I have however used phrases such as:

    Undies in a wad… blow smoke up your skirt or trousers, I use the word sucks about once a year… I have said Jesus was so stinking smart…

    These, in Ed’s video seemed like he was against, especially the word sucks. 

    I also watched the video that you linked to JOB.  Still chewing on it but not sure I liked it too much.  I did not disagree with the concept and even some of the truth, but still did not much care for it… Like I said, I am chewing on it and thanks for linking it.

  • Posted by

    Rusty,

    “Culture absolutely determines which words are acceptable or not.”

    Not for believers, the Bible determines that.

    Peter,

    I think, kind of, we’re on the same page.  If we are sensitive to what is offensive we will be more careful as to what we say.  I try my best to practice this, I do fail but by the grace of God, This is what Paul meant we he said I become all things to all men.  Paul wouldn’t hold on to anything that would become a stumbling block to others.

    Leonard,

    I’m sorry you didn’t like it, I thought the preacher hit the nail on the head.  I am glad you took the time to listen however, God Bless,

  • Posted by

    There is an important point being missed, perhaps the most important. The issue is not the word, but why the word is used. If it is in service of “chasing cool” then any word is profane. Ed does not address this. If he wants to chastise preachers for something, he should chastise them for trying to be cool, but he does not, perhaps because he must then chastise himself. I can imagine Jesus uttering almost anything, but I cannot imagine him “trying” to be something, least of all cool.

  • Posted by

    Profane:  imho, “that said,” “all of a sudden,” “at the end of the day,” “irregardless,” “tweet,” “twitter.” Profanity is in the ear of the hearer?

  • Posted by

    JOB writes:
    ““Culture absolutely determines which words are acceptable or not.”

    Not for believers, the Bible determines that.”

    OK...someone show me the list in scripture.  If you cannot show me where the Bible say exactly what words are acceptable, then you should refrain from making unsupportable assertions.

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