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Beating the “After Easter Sunday Blues”

Orginally published on Monday, March 28, 2005 at 5:02 AM
by Todd Rhoades

You know the feeling you have when you're hosting a party and the last person leaves to go home? Or when you've been looking forward to a certain event for months and it's finally over? Or maybe the superficial feeling you have deep down when you find you've opened the last Christmas present? My wife has a favorite aunt and uncle that live a few hours away. She gets to see them (maybe) once or twice a year, and she always looks forward to visiting with them. When they finally leave to go home, she naturally feels very let-down. In our house, we call this feeling the "Aunt Ellen and Uncle Norris just went home" mood. It's the kind of depressed and let down feeling you have when something you've looked forward to for a long time has just come and past (and you don't have it to look forward to any more).

Easter is one of those days for me. I love Easter. It's my favorite holiday. Don't get me wrong, I love Christmas when we celebrate Christ's birth... but what can be better than celebrating his rising from the dead? Many Christians anticipate Easter and look forward to Easter services. But for pastors and church staff, Easter is 'lived' and prepared for for literally weeks and months. It's a day that's much anticipated... a day when many new people, many faithless people, many people who NEVER come to church actually do. It's a day as a pastor you live for. You live for the excitement, the crowd, and the opportunity to proclaim God's Word in the best way you know how.


And now it's over. The crowds are gone. The music has silenced. Aunt Ellen and Uncle Norris just went home.


How are you feeling this morning, the morning after Easter? If you feel a little let down, that's ok... it's normal. But we have some great things to be thankful for today that should lift our spirits and get us pumped for next Sunday, the Sunday AFTER Easter:


1. Christ is STILL risen! Even if we selfishly feel a little let down this morning, let's not forget the big picture. The very thing we proclaimed yesterday has tremendous impact in the way we start our week today. Christ is STILL alive; and that makes all the difference in our job; and also gives us a reason to be motivated.


2. If you were faithful yesterday, the seed of God's Word was planted and is surely growing ever so slowly in someone's heart today! Even if you know of no heart that was changed or life that was dedicated to Christ yesterday, you can count on the fact that God used your faithfulness in some way... quite possibly in a way that you'll never realize this side of heaven.


3. Next week ISN'T Easter! That's good news! The pressure is off. That means a little less stress, and the ability to concentrate on what needs to be done without all the added 'pressure to perform'.


After last Easter's services, Pastor Mark Roberts (who pastors at Irvine Presbyterian Church in Irvine, CA) wrote this:


"It’s the Monday after Easter. I preached at four services yesterday. These came on the heels of one service on Saturday and two on Good Friday. For a pastor, this past weekend is rather like my Super Bowl. Today I feel exhausted, but happy, grateful, and reflective."


Do you feel like this today? Exhausted, but happy? Grateful and reflective? It's natural.


Pastor Mark continues, "The services are over, but the reality of Easter continues on today, and tomorrow, and each day ahead forever. Thus we can live with confidence, knowing that Christ has won the decisive battle. Though the mop-up aspect of the war remains, Christ is the victor, and therefore we share in his victory."


That gives us reason to be excited!


Have a GREAT Monday!
Todd A. Rhoades
Todd A. Rhoades
Webmaster -
ChurchStaffing.com


FOR DISCUSSION:  How are you feeling this morning? What exceptional happened in your Easter services? Let's discuss this today.  Please leave your input now!


BY THE WAY... Pastor Mark Roberts has a great minute-by-minute, blow-by-blow recall of his experience as a pastor last Easter that I know you would enjoy... It's entitled "Easter from the Other Side of the Pulpit". I'm sure you can relate and would enjoy reading this!


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  • Posted by

    I heard the comment made several times that this is our Super Bowl Sunday and I certainly understand the point; but for believers every Sunday should receive Super Bowl attention shouldn’t it?  Did we worship our risen Lord less last week?  Are we going to worhsip Jesus less next Sunday?  Could it be that some people only attend once a year because they see the pagaentry and desire normalcy?  Could it be that they attended teh “big event” so they now don’t see the need for every Sunday worship?  I’m thinking out loud not criticizing.  I enjoy these Monday AM insights.

  • Posted by Bill Little

    Thanks,

    I was just going over this very thought in my mind and wondering why I feel so down and what can I do about it?

    I’ve only been at my church for 8 mos and when I arrived I knew things were not where they should be.  I knew that there would a lot of hard work to get the church healthy, and I think were moving in that direction.  But, I also want the church grow in other areas, esecially in numbers.  I know it can.  There are plenty of prospects around and what is so disappointing is thre response to all the hard work we did in preperation for Easter.  We sent out 500 plus personalized invitations to prospects, mailed an additional card to the same ones welcoming them to our area, we put up 50 yard signs all around the county, we called, we visited, we passed out 350 personal invitations for people to invite, we had some free public serivce announcemnts, and we prayed.  We had a specical called prayer time for 24 hours where people were asked to come to the church to pray for the services and each person that would be here.  Only 2 hours of the day were not covered.

    I was expecting at least 150 -175 people after all the work we did since we average 115.  We ended up with about 130 people.  It was just a bit disappointing for me.

    The good news and this is what I am trying to focus on is the family that joined and the one that was saved last week that came forward.  Also, the many people that helped in all these endevors.  Some of the people worked a lot of extra hours and helped in so many ways.  For them as much as me, I was hoping for a bigger return on our investment.

    Thanks for a forum to down load, its very important.  I pray God’s Kingdom was advanced greatly in your area.

  • Posted by

    True. There is a let down after Easter...after every big event.  That’s why performers have cast parties.

    I have found it helpful to take a day off afterwards, rest, and do something that fills my tank...like a good day fishing...or whatever.  MusiCalifornia always schedules their event the week following Easter.  It’s great timing in a great setting.  A good way to get recharged.

    Those who follow the Church Year have another perspective that is helpful.  They don’t see Easter as a day, but rather as a season.  Eastertide is the “Great 50 Days” following Easter up through Pentecost Sunday.  There are many ways to uniquely celebrate a season rather than just a day. 

    Those who don’t observe the Church Year (like my church) tend to put all energies into one day with the resulting downside the day after.  I know, I know...it’s the opportunity to evangelize.  But wouldn’t there be great value in having the people of God celebrate a season, reinforcing the resurrection each week, rather than just one day?

    If you’ve never thought about the Church Year, there are treasures in spiritual formation to be found there.

    Just a thought…

  • Posted by

    Yes, I’m having a post-Easter “Blue Monday.” Actually,it’s been building for sometime. We’ve had a very wet & nasty winter and I’ve been BEGGING for Spring.  Good Friday was perfect. Saturday, it was suppose to rain but turned out BEAUTIFUL!  I attended one of those progressive Passion of Christ events that drew thousands of people!  I didn’t see the whole thing but there were moments were I sat holding my son and the tears rolled down.  Sunday was suppose to be stormy but it remained nice until late afternoon which meant that the little old lady I check on each week could come to church for Easter. Yesterday was the first Sunday for our new projection system!  We’ve had a special offering going for over a year and we were finally able to purchase the equipment a couple of weeks ago.  I thought it would be great if we could “dedicate” it on Easter Sunday morning.  Some said it couldn’t be done but I had a marvelous team and we got it together and we worked hard and really created some wonderful elements to go with the music and overall service.  There’s more than a years work, planning and effort completed! (sigh...what’s next!)
    We had a great crowd! (for us) We average around 120 in Sunday School but we hit 155!  And oh, the people sang! God was in the house! This also comes close to marking my 1 yr “anniversary” of coming to this church. I’m both looking back and looking ahead.
    Now, it’s Monday and it’s cold, damp and gray.  What happened to Spring?  I should be trout fishing!  But, I’m here but not getting much done.  I’ll go clean up in the Worship Center but I’m sure it will still be there tomorrow. (heehee) What did come to my heart and mind was, what if we celebrated Jesus and the work of the cross EVERY Sunday the way we do at Easter?  I don’t mean pagents and banners but with a spirit that continually proclaims, “He is risen!  He is risen indeed!” Yes, Christmas is wonderful and beautiful.  And the cross was both horrible and beautiful beyond words but the real news was & is an empty tomb!  Thanks for the topic and I’ll just ADjust my attitude and get focused...tomorrow.  haha
    In Christ,
    Ben E

  • Posted by bernie dehler

    We should probably also grieve for all those “Easter and Christmas” only “Christians” who really think they are Christians.  You believe in God? Good. So does the devil, and shudders…

    James 2:19
    You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that-and shudder.

    ...Bernie
    http://www.oneplace.com/ministries/247

  • Posted by

    Bernie’s comment on the “C.E.O.’s” is true for so much of our nation.  I wonder what our “numbers” will be like next Sunday?  Did we, through worship, the Word, the Love of Christ, the Holy Spirit, open a heart enough that they might want a little more?  Was a seed of a relationship planted that someone wants come back next Sunday and experiance more?  Will we as a church rise to that occasion?  I hope and pray so.
    I also grieve for those who come to church on a regular or even a semi-regular basis but not much more.  Perhaps they have at one time made a commitment to Jesus Christ receiving Him as Savior and Lord but remain content with Sunday School and a morning service.  Were they “moved” to desire more than the forgiveness of sins through Christ and the cross and want to know more of the abundant “resurrected” life in Christ?  Was I?  Will we (myself included) slip back into the routine or will we/have we been rekindled to grow and reach for Christ?
    I hope and pray so.
    Ben E.

  • Posted by

    Follow up is important and often neglected after these gatherings.  Jesus said come follow Me.  There is no substitute to time spent with Jesus.  When you are with a community that is abiding with Christ there is life.

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