Orginally published on Tuesday, August 29, 2006 at 7:40 AM
by Todd Rhoades
I read this over at Steve Sjogren's blog and thought it was a good thinking piece... Steve writes: "If the church was a mission to the moon, and I was the commander of the mission, my call to Mission Central would be: "Oh God, we have a problem!" The problem is that when the vast majority of people think of the Church, or of a Christian, their thoughts are negative! The Church in America needs to go through a re-branding process. By re-branding I mean simply this: We need to begin to work hard to reshape the association that comes to mind when the average person thinks of one of those 'C' words...
Contrary to what is spoon fed to us by the Christian media, the problem with the image of the Church is not a result of an inundation of negativity from the ‘secular media.’ Please please, let’s retire that word, it is so ‘us vs. them.’ Jesus never thought in those terms. When we use terms like that we sound like victims, like everyone is out to get us.
The truth is we have an image problem that we have created ourselves. Mostly out of sheer, 100% laziness. Instead of living out the life of Jesus on a daily basis, we have sought the ‘good life’ like all of our neighbors. After decades and generations of doing that we wonder, ‘Gee, I wonder why no one listens to us? I wonder why no one takes us seriously?’ My response: ‘Gee, my foot!’ Laziness leads to no credibility. It’s really that simple.
Steve plans to continue his thoughts in his series here each day...
FOR DISCUSSION: Do you agree with Steve? Is this one of the main reasons people don’t listen to anything Christians or Churches say?
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Do I agree? Yes, 100%
We have created our own PR nightmare. If we preach love and then do not love...If we talk about being sinless (not all do, but some) and then sin...If we tell others how they should live their lives with no humility or mercy toward them and then make headlines with our scandals.......
It think it is a combination of living out Kingdom in front of our world, and doing it with humility and servanthood.
I wish Steve would unpack a bit more what he means by lazy. I know it is a broad brush generalization (which I’ve often criticized people for doing here on MMI), but I do think some descriptors like smug, arrogant, or condescending, self-righteous fit the image Christians have created of themselves, and then blame the bad press on the secular media. And I completely agree that such a posture makes us look like victims and causes us to lose credibility. We earn the bad image and then whine when the secular media portrays us as we really are.
Now . . . I admit that sometimes the secular media misrepresents Christians, but I don’t think it helps anything for us to get all whipped up about that. What should we expect, the things of God are foolish to the world. Grace doesn’t make sense. Neither does much of a biblical worldview to people who view the world through different lenses. Let’s not be mad at them about that, lets just love people into the kingdom so their lenses change.
Wendi
Certainly the ‘secular media’ misrepresents us. But part of the bad PR nightmare is that we let it affect us. Imagine if Christians were known for their outrageous love and service… we’d be almost untouchable by the media. There’d be an obvious disconnect between what’s on the news and what people experience. The only reason the media can bash us is because we too often fit the stereotypes the news providers.
Imagine if Christians were only allowed to talk in Church. The rest of the time, they’d be mute, and they would wash feet, suffer injustice, never sue, always assume the best, give sacrificially of time and money to help the poor and the oppressed, both here and aborad… just imagine!!
But wait… isn’t that what the Church is called to do?
So I would say we’re not only lazy, but we’re also way too loud and obnoxious (how’s that for unqualified sweeping statements Wendi? ).
In my years of working with churches on media & communications, I’ve met a lot of hard-working folks. But I’ve also been involved as a consultant with more than a few churches where they had a staff member who either didn’t work smart or was flat-out lazy.
The former situations usually revolved around either a person who was living proof of the Peter-Principle (promoted above their level of competency) or a well-meaning but disorganized staff member who put in a lot of hours but was habitually late on projects and didn’t know how to delegate well. Lots of hours does not make a person a hard-worker: productive hours are the true measuring stick.
Then there are those staff I’ve encountered who were flat-out lazy. They did as little as possible and complained about all of the “work” they had to do. I worked with on such person while I was on staff at a church in Louisiana. The inside joke on staff was that the lazy guy had to have naked pictures of the pastor since every other staff member was routinely subjected to a productivity review by the senior pastor - except for this one lazy staff member.
I think that Wendi’s comment about the need to expand on “lazy” does need more definition in the context of Steve’s article. For example, there are staff members who were competent and motivated when the church was smaller but are now doing less and less when their area of responsibility grew with the church growth. It’s not that their necessarily do-nothing lazy people, but that we’ve not hired new leadership that’s more capable than these well-intentioned but now under qualified individuals. Instead of either A) demoting or B) providing a nice severance package and removing them, we let them continue to lead in an area where the Peter-Principle is in full effect. It’s hard to make these changes, but churches often would rather “keep the peace” and be mediocre in their efforts than make the personnel changes as the church grows.
I, too, would like to see if this is what Steve meant when he described “lazy” staff members.
Well first off, I believe Mr. Sjorgren is going to indeed unpack what he means by lazy. And secondly, while we all know pockets of hard working involved believers we all also know multitudes of believers who are in fact lazy. We know churches that are lazy. They are so preoccupied with thier own circumstances that they do almost nothing else. Yes there are people who are caught up in events that require their full attention, I am not talking about them. It is the majority of others who are floating along and are lazy.
I also believe our PR does not come so much from the media secular or otherwise but from how we imteract with the community around us, which sadly enough is minimal and self directed. Just the way it is.
It grieves me to agree.
Anthony is right-on when he speaks of the principle of promotion beyond capabilities. I especially saw it during Katrina. Our church’s shelter was created with such good intentions, but no one with the gift of administration seemed to be calling the shots. No count of how many beds were available, no central (much less secure) roll of who might have severe medical conditions (including phychiatric) - and no one able to make decisions on the fly. Having drafted policies and procedures for companies for years, I stood amazed at the lack of a plan.
But then a group of us gathered together and took care of it, just like the Body should. It was a wonderful experience to be useful and needed. Communication has been and will always be the key.
Daniel writes “So I would say we’re not only lazy, but we’re also way too loud and obnoxious”
And we’re fat, too!
I have certainly worked with my share of people who could be described as “lazy,” regardless of how well defined the word is. The fact of the matter is that there are people in ministry, as in every other vocation, who simply don’t (or can’t, for whatever reason) pull their fair share of the load. There are those who are merely coat-tail riders. This describes some of the people who were in my workgroups in seminary. If I were seeking a new place of service, I would avoid them like the beubonic plague if I found they were employed there!
Sadly, to some extent, I think Steve is right. Laziness, whether real or perceived, is a factor in a diminished sense of credibility—no matter what the context. I’m not sure there are more lazy people in the church though. Maybe it’s just that churches are under more careful observation (by the public) for productivity and effectiveness than many other organizations.
One thing is for sure: we don’t have time to be lazy. We need to be seeking every possible way to share God’s love and mercy with our communities.
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