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What do you Love?  What do you Hate?

Orginally published on Monday, May 09, 2005 at 8:57 AM
by Todd Rhoades

David D. Ireland has a new book coming next week entitled Perfecting Your Purpose. In it, he discusses one way to begin to discover the exact purpose God has for you in your ministry. David writes…

"Google is one of the most powerful search engines on the web. If you surf to the website http://www.google.com and type in a word, this search engine looks through almost five billion web pages of information in moments to locate all of the sites that reference your subject.

Similarly, if you went to God's search engine to gather a greater understanding about His purpose for your life, I would encouarge you to perform two different searches back to back. First, you would type in the word love, and second, you would key in the word hate. These two powerful human emotions embody the keys to unlocking your purpose. Ezekiel discovered this principle because his hate for the moral bankruptcy of his people along with his undying love for the Lord moved him to lie on his left and right sides as a prophetic sign.

Ask yourself two vital questions: What do I love most? And what do I hate most? I am referring to your love or hate of items, processes, vocations, and the like, not people. Jesus made it quite clear that if we intend to follow His leadership and submit to His behavioral requirements, we have only one option of behavior toward people -- to love them.

1. What Do You Love the Most?
Have you given any thought to what you love to do? I love explaining things to people, and this love has manifested itself as a teaching gift. I enjoy debating about controversial or philosophical subjects that demand logical thinking and sharp communication skills. Hence, part of my life's purpose is to empower people who need a ready defense against intellectual bullies and false teachers bent on misleading people.

What do you love the most? Don't overlook the significance of your answer because it may contain the direction that you have been waiting for. Use this question as a self-discovery tool to guide you to your purpose.

2. What Do You Have the Most?
It often seems much easier to see the value of love than the value of hate. I suspect the reason is that people seek love and run from hate. In fact, in its most general form the word love occurs 310 times in the King James Version of the Bible. The word hate, on the other hand appears 87 times. Despite its fewer times mentioned in the Scriptures, hate offers a service that you should not underestimate or ignore. Human beings, particularly Christians, just hate to think that there could be any value in hating something. Nevertheless, hate has its benefits.

Ask yourself: What do I hate most? Then zero in on hate from two perspectives. First, think of the things that trouble you -- the things that you avoid. For example, I just hate wasting time, so I keep my distance from and minimize my involvement with people who like to waste time. This aspect of hate is not an indicator of purpose. Second, think of the things that you hate so much that you're always thinking of ways to fix or solve the problems that they present.

I hate chaos and confusion in people's lifes. Seeing projects or organizational systems of any size in disarray irritates me. But over the years I noticed that I was constantly being drawn into situations involving these areas. After a time of introspection and after receiving positive feedback following many of my restructuring tasks, I discovered that I have a gift of administration and organization. The very antithesis of the things I hate -- chaos and disorder -- is the area where one of my strongest gifts lies."

Do an analysis this morning... what is it that you really love to do and the things you really hate doing? It could help you define exactly where and how God wants you to serve in the future!"

FOR DISCUSSION: What do you love the most? What do you hate the most? Which of these things recharge your emotions? Which ones drain you? Does determining the things you hate help you at all in discovering your life's purpose?


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  • Posted by

    Ben:

    “I don’t think that is what you intend BUT, if I judge by the “general trend” in the way ya’ll “adore” pouncing on these subjects, perhaps someone could judge you to be what your responses seem to project...hummmm?”

    Ben, I usually try to refrain from posting on any issue that is, well, not worth my time or is an issue of very little importance.  However, on those which I believe may threaten the Body of Christ, then, yeah, I’ll be there to set the record straight.

    Forgive me if I come across as abrasive, but I’ve been involved in this thing for quite some time and I’ve seen a dangerous trend continue that has and will continue to hamstring the Body of Christ as to its effectiveness as a witness to the world.

    However, I don’t apologize for being stick in the eye of those who have bought into a worldly scheme of “doing church,” because that threatens the precious souls who have been lulled into believing these “experts” to their harm.

  • Posted by

    BeHim,
    I do not in any way think that you hate me (nor I, you, for that matter) and I do get the analogy of the fire. AND, I apologize if I came off as angry.  Passionate maybe, but not angry.  SO GET OFF MY BACK! (that was a JOKE!) My point is this:  Go back to the top.  What was the point of discussion?  To me is was simply a discussion on a potential way to ascertain God’s purpose, call, direction etc. in our lives. 
    (SIDE NOTE:  Yes, we could discuss/debate that spiritual topic for days, but not now.)
    But, in only two entries, the topic was gone and judgement was on.  (I honestly did not want that to rhyme, I’m so sorry...)
    Now, I have not read the book but I’m willing to ASSUME the best of it’s intention while keeping an eye open for anything that would bring caution and we would discuss.  But it doesn’t happen that way.  Caution doesn’t come mixed with the discussion, we took a HARD left (or right) turn in to humanism!  And, it’s presented in what sounds like, to me, self-righteousness.  I know it’s not intended because we backoff and let each other know that we don’t hate each other and all the nice stuff.
    As for our purpose:  okay, you say submission and obedience...okay to what purpose, direction?  “I am submitted and obedient now, God, what do You want me to do with it?” Finding THAT, I think, was the original point that we never really discussed!
    As for me, I believe we are created for love and to love and to be loved.  To “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” From this LOVE, comes the submission and obedience.  That’s how I see it.
    I love ya my brother...I have HAVE TO, God said so....sheesh.
    God Bless!
    Ben E.

  • Posted by bernie dehler

    Here are some relevent sayings to shed more light:

    “God has a wonderful plan for your life, not a wonderful life for your plan.”

    “If God is your co-pilot… change seats!”

    Many people think they should “bloom where they are planted,” but I think God also wants to take us to a higher place-- go where He wants us to.  He wants to work through our hands, and travel through our feet.  Are we willing to surrendar totally to Him and be led by the Spirit? That’s the challenge… and it may not be to a comfortable place… The cross is not fun, but Jesus asked us to pick it up and follow Him…

    Luke 9:23
    23Then he said to them all: “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.

    ...Bernie
    http://freegoodnews.blogspot.com

  • Posted by

    Ricky,
    Oh, I understand and yes, I’ve been on the bad end of “doing church.” Growth by programs and statistics and it completely shreaded me!  And I’ve experienced the opposite side of that coin where principals, ideas, insights, tools and even (dare I say) PROGRAMS (ha HA!) that, in my opinion, have a solid scriptural base have been misused, abused, poorly implemented and turned into something they were never intended to be.  This only adds fuel to the fire and lends credence to your arguments.  (ie “points of debate")
    The problem, in my opinion, is that the worst is assumed and the extreme angle is taken.  What I’m asking is, can’t we lovingly assume the best, engage the discussion AT IT’S INTENDED POINT and, when a “flag” goes up, ask questions.  We then clarify on the point, agree OR agree to disagree and continue discussing THE POINT?
    That way, perhaps, we could go beyond 2 or 3 entries before high ground is claimed and trenches are dug.  CAN’T WE ALL GET ALONG!
    Again, I apologize for any misunderstanding.  Though I am very passionate about many of these isssue, I intend the vast majority of what I’m expressing to be recieved with a liberal dose of good humor.  (It’s hides the nasty sarcism!)
    At this point, we are responding to each other in delay mode which isn’t the best for this kind of communication.  I shall read no further and regardless of what is written, I shall assume the best of each of you!  Now that we all agree that I’m right and you are wrong, I shall go the big orange home fix-it store and select a bathroom vanity with my lovely bride and glorious children.  I look forward to continuing our disucssion and if I don’t meet you here, I hope to see you on the “otherside.” The side with the pretty streets and lovely waters.
    God Bless!
    Ben E.

  • Posted by

    Ben:

    “The problem, in my opinion, is that the worst is assumed and the extreme angle is taken.”

    You’re right about that and I certainly plead guilty.

    I suppose it’s because Todd usually posts articles that assume that the author is always correct, which obviously is not the case.

    Also, because it seems as if Todd doesn’t want to post more controversial points of view regarding “church,” it’s frustrating when you want to hear something fresh instead of the same old, stale “diet” of articles.

    Blessings to you.

  • Posted by

    BEN WRITES:
    Caution doesn’t come mixed with the discussion, we took a HARD left (or right) turn in to humanism! And, it’s presented in what sounds like, to me, self-righteousness.

    BeHim responds:
    Ben, I speak against self-righteousness and self all together and if you are taking my position then why do you assume the ideology of the book is not humanistic in nature?  Have you tested books to determine if they are or are not humanistic in nature?  Do you know how to test them? - Just ask Biblical questions as though you were doing so from God’s perspective.

    BEN WRITES:
    As for our purpose: okay, you say submission and obedience...okay to what purpose, direction? “I am submitted and obedient now, God, what do You want me to do with it?”

    BeHim responds:
    Ben, let’s be clear, the Bible teaches submission and obedience, this is not my original thought, Glory to God, not me.  If you’re asking me what purpose or direction you need to go; it’s simple and very much again, Biblical.

    Preach the Gospel (this btw must include some kind of separation because of sin otherwise what good is the word “repent” or “confess”) and make disciples of men.

    As for what He wants you to do outside of that, God wants you to learn more about Him, His Attributes, His Character, Make Him Lord of your thoughts and time.  Don’t spend time learning about you, spend time learning about Him.

    How do you do this?  You must learn doctrine.  Yes, a bad word to many but none-the-less necessary to lead and teach people about God.  Otherwise, we are led by “warm-fuzzy” feelings about who God is and how it relates to us.  I just can’t think of anything more clear in Scripture than these “directives”.

    BEN WRITES:
    As for me, I believe we are created for love and to love and to be loved. To “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” From this LOVE, comes the submission and obedience. That’s how I see it.

    BeHim responds:
    I would humbly disagree with you Ben.  First, we are created for His Good Pleasure (that is ALL mankind is created for His Good Pleasure) and second, you’re putting the horse before the cart.

    If you carefully read your post, you’ll see the real problem with your statement is:  “this LOVE” is your love – which is to say, “I love the Lord my God with all my heart and with all my soul and with all my mind” and because you have this love, you are submitted and obedient.  I disagree!

    It’s because of HIS Love that you heard, obeyed, submitted and then loved.  Scripturally speaking, “we love Him because [read that] He first Loved us.” And that would be from before the foundations of the earth!  Praise and Glory to God, Amen!

    Food for thought Ben, in the end, bickering and going back and forth isn’t going to change a person.  It’s only when the person truly seeks God’s face and asks Him to reveal the Truth to him in Scripture.  We should all, when confronted with an argument or position that makes Biblical sense, seek God’s council about it and search out the matter.  Many times however, we won’t do that.  Instead, we argue back and harden our hearts to the message; and walk away with some kind of remark like: “I’m going to believe what I want and you can too.”

    It’s not really what we are called to do (we ARE called to test all things) but in the end, it’s really the only way to release people from the burdens of doctrine they are either not willing to accept or the Lord has not opened their eyes and ears to (I tend to believe the latter but hope in the former).

    Ask yourself honestly, have you searched out these matters Scripturally?  Have you tested the ideology of these christian books?  If not, then why do you argue for or against.  I can honestly say I have searched out these matters and cosidered the Scriptures in all things.  I don’t speak from ignorance on the matter, I speak from knowledge and understanding that Glory be to God, God has allowed me to know and to understand.  I exhort you to seek the same from Him.

  • Posted by Todd Rhoades

    Hey all,

    As owner of this blog, I would have to agree with Ben E.  (at least on the direction of this blog).

    This was to be a discussion on honing in on your purpose in ministry; finding ways that you can help make a bigger impact on the Kingdom.  Instead, we get into a theological debate on humanism?

    I am the owner of the blog, and I do choose the topics; and yes (Ricky) they do have to do with the institutional church as most of us know it.  We’ve discussed this before… that’s where most of us are at.  My hope is to give some help to the 99% who are in this ‘construct’ of a ‘church’ so that we can better communicate the gospel.  This does include things that are considered innovative, outside the box, and out of the norm.

    The ‘hijacking’ (as Ben E. calls it) of this blog is happening almost every day; and it is about to stop… not because I don’t want open discussion; but because the people I am trying to reach are leaving because they are finding this to be a place where those opposed to the topics have a much stronger voice that those the topics are trying to help.

    I’ve recommended to Ricky, Bernie, and others that a blog on diversive views would be a great idea, and that I’d actually help them promote it.  Now, I’ll make the offer that I’ll actually pay for it if you like… there is a place for dissent on everything related to innovative churches, but I don’t wish this blog to be the home for it.

    I want this space to be positive.  I want this to be a blog that assumes the best, not the worst.  I want this blog to be a place that helps build church leaders rather than attacks them.  And I want this place to be a safe harbor from undue criticism (if we want to be criticized, we can go to a board meeting, for crying out loud!).

    Todd

    Todd

  • Posted by

    This was to be a discussion on honing in on your purpose in ministry; finding ways that you can help make a bigger impact on the Kingdom. Instead, we get into a theological debate on humanism?

    Honing in on your purpose:  Scripture says deny yourself and follow Him.  This is our primary purpose OR the opposite, serve self and do what you want, when you want and how you want.

    Our purpose in ministry is to “preach the Gospel” and “make disciples of men”

    How to make a bigger impact on the kingdom:  Be Him!  Learn all the doctrines (beliefs) that relate to Him. and of course, deny yourself in all things.  Esteem others higher than yourself and love even when you are hated.

    As for the 99%, God has a track record of working with the smaller numbers so as to not share the Glory with men (ie. Gideon, David, Isaiah, the 12 apostles).  Maybe being “outside” the larger percentage isn’t a bad thing at all.

    I for one would very much enjoy to see a blog covering difficult doctrines Todd, begin with Sovereignty and Free Will or Total Depravity.

  • Posted by bernie dehler

    Todd wrote:
    “The ‘hijacking’ (as Ben E. calls it) of this blog is happening almost every day; and it is about to stop… not because I don’t want open discussion; but because the people I am trying to reach are leaving because they are finding this to be a place where those opposed to the topics have a much stronger voice that those the topics are trying to help.

    I’ve recommended to Ricky, Bernie, and others that a blog on diversive views would be a great idea, and that I’d actually help them promote it. Now, I’ll make the offer that I’ll actually pay for it if you like… there is a place for dissent on everything related to innovative churches, but I don’t wish this blog to be the home for it.”

    Message received loud and clear… you won’t hear from me again…

    ...Bernie

  • Posted by Todd Rhoades

    Ricky,

    You weren’t the main culprit here, or even one of the culprits… I used your name above, unfairly in this post (probably not unfairly in my opinion in your overall posts, but we’ve discussed that privately before), actually you were quite civil… and I’m not in to blackballing anyone or telling people to go away.  RThat’s not what I was asking for.

    I am, however, into somehow not having every topic here picked apart (as this one was on the humanism rant).

    I’m not sure what the answer is… I’ve offered to help set up an alternative blog if someone would like to lead it.  I know that I would be a regular reader, and probably a ‘burr under your saddle’ at that blog (it’d be fun to turn the tables!)

    Anybody else have other ideas as to have a civil blog, a positive blog, and/or a blog where everyone can have great input without everything taking on a negative tone?  I’d love to hear from you!

    Todd

  • Posted by

    Do an analysis this morning… what is it that you really love to do and the things you really hate doing? It could help you define exactly where and how God wants you to serve in the future!”

    Lets see…
    I like fishing
    I like golf
    I like Sports especially basket ball
    I like family
    I like reading
    I love eating watermelon

    I hate noise
    I hate cats
    I hate sickness
    I hate greasy food

    Now to review my list and find where God wants me to serve.

    Wow what a great revelation “ I am to be the watermelon eating champion of the world!”

    Well then again maybe I should fast and pray and ask God himself where he would have me serve. He may surprise me....

  • Posted by

    Message received loud and clear… you won’t hear from me again…

    ...Bernie

    Now Bernie this would be OK if your were not a child of God. If in my life of being persecuted for my stance for Christian Doctrine I would have quit speaking out and I would have left evil go unchallenged. There is nothing the devil would like to do better then to silence the voice of the Children of God. The devil has been very sucessful in keeping the body of Christ silent, but we are awakening and we will not be silent anymore. Truth basic truth as found in the Word of God is worth dying for muchless a little criticism.

  • Posted by

    wow!!  this sort of “christian” behavior (the arguing, the insinuations, the pouting) are why i don’t like christian discussions to begin with.  everybody is so sure they are “right”...and it seems nobody has convinced anyone else that they are wrong. so the arguing is in vain.  why not state your opinion, add a note that since you are NOT God you don’t know everything and could be wrong and then pray for your blog friends that if they are mislead that God will show them the way and that if you are wrong that God will show you the way.  In my opinion, it really is that simple. The holy spirit is the convictor of sins, we aren’t.  And life is much easier and relationships are much calmer once you figure that out. 
    Once again, just my 2 cents.  I could be wrong.

  • Posted by

    Michelle,

    You ARE wrong.  There is Truth and there is False and God has NOT hidden it from men.

    You assume both arguements are wrong and only God can know the Truth.  You are wrong.

    God obviously reveals truth to men.  The entire POINT of the Bible.

    Or is what your alluding to is: Each man has truth the Holy Spirit has given him/her?

    Would the Holy Spirit contradict itself?

    So when there is a contradiction between two Holy Spirit filled men/women, who is wrong?

    Can’t be the Holy Spirit/God!

    To believe the Holy Spirit will give each man/woman “thier” own truth EVEN if it contradicts...... alligns with the Scripture, “every man/woman did what was right in their own eyes.”
    Danger Will Robinson!

    You also assume encouraging a person to watch out for sin is somehow wrong.  I believe we have a responsability to watch out for each other.  TO just allow a Christian brother/sister to wallow in sin and stand by and do nothing, is NOT love, that is HATE!

    Do you assume the Holy Spirit doesn’t use men to convict other men of sin?  That is truly the preaching and teaching of the Gospel - “repent for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand” - a convicting measure that we are COMMANDED to preach to the entire world!

  • Posted by

    Todd said:

    “My hope is to give some help to the 99% who are in this ‘construct’ of a ‘church’ so that we can better communicate the gospel.”

    Todd, I truly believe that your heart is certainly to help see the gospel better communicated.  That is clearly my and others (i.e., Bernie, BeHim, et al) prayer as well. 

    However, you make the assumption that the best way to communicate the gospel is within the very institution that has unwittingly done more to harm the gospel than the society they claim to want to reach.

    The gospel is only “best communicated” when God’s people are released from the chains of the institution’s legalism.  God’s people MUST be free to be and to do exactly that which God has called and gifted them to do.  Unfortunately, the institutionalized church doesn’t believe this.  They believe that they know better than Christ what His people and HIS Church needs.  It is this arrogance (not you but the institution) that has and will continue to greatly hamper the expansion of the gospel.

    Why not risk alienation by saying, “You know, there’s got to be a better way, a more biblical way to BE the Church.” Warning: such thinking may lead us back to the bible and to Jesus and the true expressions of His Church.

    Todd again:

    “This does include things that are considered innovative, outside the box, and out of the norm.”

    Come on, Todd, don’t insult our intelligence.  “Outside the box?” Much of what we see today passing for “church” is nothing more than corporate America dressed in choir robes.

    Most of these fads that appear on the horizon of “church” today is tantamount to a child playing jacks inside of his cardboard “house.” While he is amazed for a brief time with his new toy, the world outside is continuing to go to hell.

    But, don’t worry.  I, like Bernie, will not return because one thing I don’t want to do is to offend someone to the point that they turn away from Jesus.

    Accept my apologies, please, and God bless.

  • Posted by

    What I have noticed in Christian discussion/debate/opinion (whatever you may want to call it) is when one side has a more Biblical AND more logical position, the other side throws them on “iggy” (that’s ignore in online terms) by either keeping quiet, or putting them in “another room or place”.

    Almost as if to say… well, you have the right to your opinion but this (whatever “this” might be) is what I believe and you can believe what you want to believe (we all know Biblically, this leads to:  “they all did that which was “right” in their own eyes” – right is not determined through the eyes of men, but the Heart, Mind, Spirit and Word of God). 

    As though we have two different or opposing belief systems (which may in fact be true but not definitely not RIGHT).  We are to be of one mind and one Spirit but instead many think it is perfectly okay to walk away from the table with “I’m going to go away with what I believe, regardless of the evidence presented to me, because this is what I know and what I’ve been taught.” What if what you know and been taught is Biblically wrong?  I DEFINITELY want to know when and where I am, Scripturally, wrong!!!

    If, I for one, am found wanting from a Biblical and Logical (primarily Biblical) position and my argument doesn’t stand up to the test of Scripture, then I MUST consider changing my position (not necessarily over night - but I have to at least consider searching the matter out) because I want to be as close to THE TRUTH (which would also bring me closer to The Way and The Life) as possible.

    Even secular debates know the value of defending and opposing positions - they know it improves their chances of locating/discovering truth.

    This blog was obviously started to serve Jesus Christ, don’t get in the way of Biblical debate.  Don’t shut people up or throw them on iggy by “moving them out of here”.

    Allow the discussion on these articles to go their natural course.  Don’t assume because a person has a strong BIBLICAL opinion about things, that he/she is wrong, allow the discussion to play out and truly see what is right and wrong.

    Maybe if ‘EVERY’ article seems to go this way it’s because every article NEEDS to go this way.  Maybe God is indeed using this format to bring about His Truth.  Let us not hinder the work of God in the hearts of men but encourage healthy discussion.

    Healthy, I’m sure you would agree, doesn’t mean if a person can’t make a strong Biblical argument they cry fowl and either pipe up or leave.  That’s childish.  Let’s put our beliefs to the test (ESPECIALLY when beliefs/doctrines oppose one another), as the Bareans!

    To say we are of one mind and Spirit is obviously not the case.  There are diametrically opposing views on this and other posts.  These matters need to be worked through, discussed and considered.  Not for the glory of men but in fact for the Glory of God.

    Truth always prevails over lies!  ALWAYS!  No True Christian should be found wanting.  No True Christian should be able to not provide answer for what they believe.  Yes, maybe a new born Christian but certainly not a minister (which is who and what this site caters to)!

    I beg of you in the name of Jesus to allow the discussions to run their course (if someone gets rude or angry, encourage forgiveness and patience - if someone disagrees adamantly but is wrong Biblically, reveal it to them in humbleness and love - if someone, etc...), these things are EXTREMELY IMPORTANT in THE Faith right now!  Almost like there is “hand-writing appearing on the wall”.

  • Posted by

    wow! the arrogance and superiority here are overwhelming.  i’m glad some of you are so sure of your “rightness”.  good luck with that.
    me, i’m gonna acknowledge God in all my ways (strengths or weaknesses) and do what He has asked me to do. i’m gonna believe that God made me the way I am and since He has a plan that just maybe the characteristics He gave me, He’ll use for His glory.  and I’m gonna enjoy Him doing that.

  • Posted by

    Michelle

    I am confident my righteousness is in Christ alone.  Let God be True and every man a liar.

    Do you assume confidence in what is right and wrong is arrogant?

    Do you assume a person who can declare right and wrong does so without acknowledging God?

    Are you stating what you believe “that God made me the way I am and since He has a plan that just maybe the characteristics He gave me, He’ll use for His gloy” is right and anyone that believes otherwise is somehow Scripturally wrong?  Can you please reveal this truth in Scripture to us?

    Could what you believe be right in just your eyes and it doesn’t matter what Scripture says?  My belief could be right in my eyes alone but I search the Scriptures and test my beliefs so as not to be found guilty of anything less than seeking Him.  To be worthy of the calling.

    To believe that God doesn’t want you/us to grow in Knowledge and Truth and you’ll just go where ever the “wind” may blow, is not Scriptural or prudent.

  • Posted by

    Michelle

    The ultimate assumption of your statements are trying to justify changing the constraints of morality.

    This is why I continue to stand against your tirade.  I strongly encourage you to test your motive.

    Although I’m sure you are a very peaceable person and don’t like conflict, you are certainly capable of expressing your opinion; but when your ultimate assumptions argue no one can really know truth or be right, I have to Biblically say, you are wrong.

    Why are you arguing that no one can know truth or righteousness?  Jesus is Truth and Righteousness, surely you don’t suggest we cannot know Him or God.

  • Posted by

    i certainly do not intend to continue this much longer.  you are confident that you are the ONLY person that seeks God and studies His word (or at least you come off that way) so you are 100% correct and could never be wrong.  if only all the other christians throughout time and history would have known the secret to knowing all there is to know about God and His word, we wouldn’t be having this discussion. 
    as i do not wish to hijack this posting with a useless discussion, i’m stepping out of this. you can continue being content with being right.

  • Posted by

    Michelle
    I certainly do not intend to continue this much longer.  You are confident that you are the ONLY person that seeks God and studies His word (or at least you come off that way) so you are 100% correct and could never be wrong.

    BeHim responds:
    Michelle, why do you assume I’m the only one who seeks God and studies His Word?  There are others on the blog that have expressed many of the same world views as I have.  You’ve come to the blog with both barrels blazing:

    [wow!! this sort of “christian” behavior (the arguing, the insinuations, the pouting) are why i don’t like christian discussions to begin with. everybody is so sure they are “right”...and it seems nobody has convinced anyone else that they are wrong. so the arguing is in vain. why not state your opinion, add a note that since you are NOT God you don’t know everything and could be wrong and then pray for your blog friends that if they are mislead that God will show them the way and that if you are wrong that God will show you the way. In my opinion, it really is that simple. The holy spirit is the convictor of sins, we aren’t. And life is much easier and relationships are much calmer once you figure that out.]

    Assuming a person can’t really be definitively right or wrong.  From where does this insight come?  How do you know for sure I am wrong or right? Or you for that matter?  Can you reveal to me where I am wrong or is it just your opinion and what you believe?  I encourage you not to accept or believe the lie that we can all believe what we want to believe and it will all be okay.

    BTW, I have been wrong MANY times and Praise God, He has revealed to me many of the areas where I was wrong and where I was taught wrong.  I’m sure I will be wrong in the future (it is after all man’s nature) but that in no way takes away that we cannot or will not know The Truth.

    Michelle writes:
    if only all the other christians throughout time and history would have known the secret to knowing all there is to know about God and His word, we wouldn’t be having this discussion.  As i do not wish to hijack this posting with a useless discussion, i’m stepping out of this. you can continue being content with being right.

    BeHim responds:
    Again, your assumption is wrong - There is no secret to knowing God, He has revealed Himself in His Word (His Son) and many Christians throughout time and history have known this:  Abraham, Joseph, Moses, Joshua, David, Peter, Paul, John, St. Augustine, Martin Luther, John Calvin, Jonathon Edwards, Greg Bahnsen, Chuck Smith, and hopefully, it is my earnest prayer, in this day and age, MANY MANY more will come to know The Truth.  There is nothing new that I say that hasn’t already been said by great men before me, I simply repeat what has been said in hope that God will open the eyes and ears of those who will hear and see.

    I don’t wish to hijack this blog either so I will email you a copy of this message if you prefer to continue this discussion.  I truly pray we would all hold the Bible above even our own beliefs, in that, if what I believe is wrong and it is revealed to me in Scripture, that I would have a heart open to God’s Word, Truth and Spirit to change my belief to align with His Will and Truth.

    FOR DISCUSSION: What do you love the most? What do you hate the most? Which of these things recharge your emotions? Which ones drain you? Does determining the things you hate help you at all in discovering your life’s purpose?

    This came to me last night after our Romans Bible study.  I very much love explaining Scripture and revealing the depths of Scripture that are many times over looked (simply because there are sooooo many topical studies and very rare verse-be-verse through a book studies).

    What I dislike most about what’s happening in the church today is the severe back biting and tale baring.  When vain speech becomes a way of life, in the church.

    I walked by a couple of women who were openly destroying another woman in their Bible study (that had just let out) - “did you hear what she said”

    Which one rejuvintes me?  Obviously the one that I love but I also am rejuvinated when I correct someone Biblically in knowing that I responded the way I was called (to not just walk about as though it’s all just okay).  Many times however, like last night, it was draining knowing that even after I spoke these women (in a very loving and humble way) that they still continued not even 10 minutes later.  Except now they were a little more quiet (as though hiding it from me makes any long term spiritual difference).

    These loves and hates are a process of understanding ministry.  Sometimes they are neither things I love nor hate but that I must do.  I believe the Scripture is clear about what my purpose is, Seek Him, Share Him with Others and teach what I know.  First to my family and others whom God may bring along my path.  Discovering people, emotions, situations doesn’t define my purpose because people change, emotions change and situations change but God, His Will and His Plan and Purpose for my life does not change and in that I take great comfort and rest.

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    To Michelle
    Here are some verses for you to contemplate. They are not part of todays relevant gospel, but only part of the Word of God. Most liberals when they are challenged by facts that they can not refute usually turn to anger and personal attacks.

    In America we value freedom of speech and the ability of sound debate. The sharing of ideas with open and free discourse always opens doors to opportunity and greater vision.

    The following scriptures have been all but forgotten in todays feminist culture.

    1 Timothy 2:8-15
    8 I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting;
    9 in like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, 10 but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works.
    11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission.
    12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.
    13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve.
    14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.
    15 Nevertheless she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.

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    1. What Do You Love the Most?

    I love God, family, & closest-best friends; sunny days, breezy wind; new places, new experiences; energy of the city, peacefulness of the outdoors; positive people, thinking people, honest people, sincere people, witty people, creative people; watching children play, watching parents enjoy their children; teaching people, watching them learn, counseling people, watching them grow; sophisticated music, rhythmic music, simple songs, art with purpose, thoughtful photography, profoundly simple &/or complex artistic communication; gadgets & electronic toys; creating a new song, creating a new poem, developing an insightful essay: killing sacred cows, knocking over idols, debunking myths, deflating wives tails, demystifying mysteries, & discrediting jack-legs; integrity, justice, fairness, cooperation, community, & separating the sin from the sinner; peace, solitude, quietness, & a super-deluxe Chicago-style pizza w/a glass of water.

    2. What Do You Hate the Most?

    I hate Satan, demons, devils; snow, cold; inner-city ghettos, rural farms; repeating myself; bugs, insects, & rodents; negative attitudes, dense persona, insincerity, dishonesty; monotony, & status-quo; bad influences on children, clueless parental skills; disinterest, disrespect, lack of discipline, lack of growth, blissful ignorance, unwillingness for personal responsibility, plausible deniability, situational ethics; culture of death; violent, misogynistic, lude & lascivious pop-culture, formula-based record industry; arrogant suburbia, snobbish society, elitist partisanship, narcissistic agnosticism, & know-it-all demagoguery; churches that abuse, tradition over Bible, religious over spiritual; sarcasm, insult, & hateful incitement over the pulpit; beating up the saints from the pulpit, biblical error from the pulpit, double-standards from the pulpit, non-profit churches that operate for profit; church leadership that functions like organized-crime bosses, thugs, & political bullies; vain & self-important church leadership, condescending & patronizing church leadership, controlling church leadership, lying leadership; misinformation, propaganda, half-truths, good-ol’-boys network, personal & institutionalized racism & discrimination; condemning the sin with the sinner, secular-revisionist history, secular-revisionist “dictionary” of terms; sacred cows, idols, myths, wives-tails, unqualified/unproductive jack-legs; deceitfulness, injustice, policy over pertinence, unfairness, disunity, & community abuse; chaos, loneliness, overbearing noise & liver.

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    I love Christ, my family, my siblings in Christ.

    I hate seeing the people I love abused or neglected, especially when it’s at the hands of those who should love them most.

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    Daniel,

    What, when all else fails and frustration sets in, proof-text?

    Please re-read Galatians 3:28.  When finished with that, then note the actions of Our Lord.  Next, indulge in a good, long, slow reading of Philemon.  SELAH.

    Finally, if STILL in doubt, then look to the Law of Love.

    Proof-texting totally out of context.  You should be ashamed if you claim to rightly divide the Word of Truth.

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